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    I am going for a meal with this girl tomorrow, I am not even sure if it is a date? as that word has not been said.

    But I have not really spoke to her that much in person, mainly by text? what do I talk about, how do I end the meal? I really like her and don't want to mess it up, someone please help me?
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    I am going for a meal with this girl tomorrow, I am not even sure if it is a date? as that word has not been said.

    But I have not really spoke to her that much in person, mainly by text? what do I talk about, how do I end the meal? I really like her and don't want to mess it up, someone please help me?
    Just be yourself. Topics to talk about could be christmas presents, christmas holidays, new years resolutions, going back to work, the sales, hobbies, places you've traveled to. If you enjoy it and want date two, just say you had a nice time and then either have a wee kiss or cuddle if you want to and she looks comfortable. It should seem less scary when you're in the moment and you'll know what to do!
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    I'll give you the most important advice, I'm serious. Make your intentions clear from the beginning, compliment her so that she knows this is a date believe me I fell into this trap a lot and due to that got friend zoned A LOT. That's why I always compliment the girl "you look very beautiful" basic things that would make it clear that this is the date. Also important is have confidence, girls love a confident guy no matter his looks, speak and act with confidence, do not be afraid to speak your mind, and finally just have fun, the worst case scenario is you would have spent a fun day with a hot girl. Good luck man.
 
 
 
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