I live in a house with 3 boys and 3 girls and I get on with everybody well except this one girl. Everything she does is so *****y for example instead of asking us if she can use the living room because her friends are coming round she leaves an extremely *****y note stuck to the TV pretty much demanding that nobody goes into the living room while she has friends round.
Her boyfriend often comes round and I get on well with him so maybe she has a problem with me because of that (lol) as she gets on with 4/6 people in the house.
There is a lot more but I wont bore you....any advice anyone has because she really annoys me most of the time and I am worried I will reach boiling point.
Turn on thread page Beta
I hate my housemate watch
- Thread Starter
- 03-01-2013 19:14
- 04-01-2013 14:04
I'm nervous about living with others at uni... this has made me more anxious!! lol
How do the other house mates get on with her?
It probably does make her anxious if you get on with her bf... maybe she's more insecure than you realise!!
What did the note say? Maybe she was scared to talk to you guys or just didn't see you... maybe?!? .... lol
- 04-01-2013 14:51
It's everyone's house... tell her straight up that she's being unreasonable and quite frankly, a complete *****.
- 04-01-2013 20:51
Try and lay down some rules but make it seem like it's for the whole house and you're not just bringing them in because of her or that may make her ruder. Also you said she gets on with 4/6 people so trying having a conversation to the others who don't get along with her so well (obviously when she's not there and not in a situation that anyone can overhear or that the person may tell her anyway) because that may a) help you to find solutions and b) release some of the tension building up inside you!
- 06-01-2013 21:34
That really isn't on. Could you get a very direct, assertive person to talk to her without sounding rude? rudeness won't achieve anything.
- 06-01-2013 21:40
Are her friends paying rent towards use of a room like you are? No. Well they have no right to take over your home. It sounds like she is pushing as far as she can-show her it is unacceptable by ignoring these silly notes and she will soon stop.