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    (Original post by Zeegie)
    I second this....although I know how frustrating it can be and it sometimes seems better to just avoid the whole thing by not getting involved in the first place.

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    I don't see what the issue is with being yourself is all :/

    The way I say it, if people can't deal with me, it means I need to surround myself with better people. And if that's and I'm sitting alone at the canteen, then so be it.



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    All the time. When I used to act like that, they would always respond quickly etc, when I act nice,its like they take liberties. Annoying as ****. I still do not want to revert to being like that again, but damn, it is so annoying.

    And ye, but you are probably the sweetest person on here, so I have to give you credit for something
    oh right....yeah that happens a lot ...i guess it might just be some form of human nature...like chasing after the ones who ignore them, whilst ignoring the ones who chase them...its like if a hot stranger told a girl she's fit, she wont mind, but if it was some other averagey looking bloke, she'll find it pervy ( just an example...a lot of girls probs arent like this i know that)....and they will go after seeking attention from those who dont look or talk to them whereas those who take an interest just put them off....

    nawwwwwwwwww lol pretty sure im the ***** on here but okay haahaaaaaaa

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    (Original post by Zeegie)
    oh right....yeah that happens a lot ...i guess it might just be some form of human nature...like chasing after the ones who ignore them, whilst ignoring the ones who chase them...its like if a hot stranger told a girl she's fit, she wont mind, but if it was some other averagey looking bloke, she'll find it pervy ( just an example...a lot of girls probs arent like this i know that)....and they will go after seeking attention from those who dont look or talk to them whereas those who take an interest just put them off....

    nawwwwwwwwww lol pretty sure im the ***** on here but okay haahaaaaaaa

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    That explains a lot. I just assumed girls like being treated respectfully. Well, most ofc do. But some clearly dont then. Hmm, very interesting. Thanks
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    That explains a lot. I just assumed girls like being treated respectfully. Well, most ofc do. But some clearly dont then. Hmm, very interesting. Thanks
    Surely those that chase after guys that disrespect them, don't respect themselves?


    Only an observation.


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    (Original post by moonietoot)
    I don't see what the issue is with being yourself is all :/

    The way I say it, if people can't deal with me, it means I need to surround myself with better people. And if that's and I'm sitting alone at the canteen, then so be it.



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    so so true, but its easier said than done...it really distracts you from the things in your life that are actually important....and then you begin to doubt yourself a lot....and for some reason it seems to be an arduously difficult thing to be the real you....i know none of what ive written makes any sense whatsoever but mehhhh

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    so so true, but its easier said than done...it really distracts you from the things in your life that are actually important....and then you begin to doubt yourself a lot....and for some reason it seems to be an arduously difficult thing to be the real you....i know none of what ive written makes any sense whatsoever but mehhhh

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    It makes sense. It makes absolute sense. But if you know people aren't good for you, when you start doubting yourself, you pull yourself away no matter how much it hurts. It's like an allergic reaction to chocolate. It's SOOO tasty but it may increase your eczema or may contribute to your high blood glucose concentration. So you stop eating it no matter how hard it is because its the best thing to do. I know people are a lot different to people. I needed to use an analogy lol


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    (Original post by moonietoot)
    Surely those that chase after guys that disrespect them, don't respect themselves?


    Only an observation.


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    bearing in mind it could be something subconscious and they'll find it difficult to control their feelings....at the end of the day, when u develop infatuations of some sort, it does take over ur rationale and logical judgment...and yet as a person mite very well be self respecting

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    bearing in mind it could be something subconscious and they'll find it difficult to control their feelings....at the end of the day, when u develop infatuations of some sort, it does take over ur rationale and logical judgment...and yet as a person mite very well be self respecting

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    Getting attached to those that don't respect you is ... No comment. Don't do it. Surround yourself with good people. That's all I can say. If its hard, stay alone. Read books. Indulge in baked goods


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    (Original post by moonietoot)
    It makes sense. It makes absolute sense. But if you know people aren't good for you, when you start doubting yourself, you pull yourself away no matter how much it hurts. It's like an allergic reaction to chocolate. It's SOOO tasty but it may increase your eczema or may contribute to your high blood glucose concentration. So you stop eating it no matter how hard it is because its the best thing to do. I know people are a lot different to people. I needed to use an analogy lol


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    I get you i just think the pulling away is the hard bit...when **** happens to you repeatedly from a bunch of people, it is so easy to think it is you who needs to change and sort urself out, when in actual fact u wud just need to take a step back and tell urself that its not u, its them, and their fault for not getting you....

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    That explains a lot. I just assumed girls like being treated respectfully. Well, most ofc do. But some clearly dont then. Hmm, very interesting. Thanks
    Isn't that what I told you via PM bro?
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    (Original post by moonietoot)
    Getting attached to those that don't respect you is ... No comment. Don't do it. Surround yourself with good people. That's all I can say. If its hard, stay alone. Read books. Indulge in baked goods


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    Lol my mum says that all the time hahahaha....I defo think praying helps a lot....enables you to clear your thoughts and you dont have to share it with anyone else.....

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    (Original post by Zeegie)
    I get you i just think the pulling away is the hard bit...when **** happens to you repeatedly from a bunch of people, it is so easy to think it is you who needs to change and sort urself out, when in actual fact u wud just need to take a step back and tell urself that its not u, its them, and their fault for not getting you....

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    I agree. It is hard.

    Life...come at me, bro, or sis, or whatever confused gender you may be. COME AT ME


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    Lol my mum says that all the time hahahaha....I defo think praying helps a lot....enables you to clear your thoughts and you dont have to share it with anyone else.....

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    Prayer is all you need lol it'll never let you down. You might let it down though. Not you specifically.
    I say this about myself first before I say it about anyone else.

    Ahhhhh. I'm TIRED !!! should I sleep or nottttt to sleep - dilemma


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    LOOOL i find that even more offensive
    I should teach you how to be offensive in a modest way


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    Hello all m back


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    (Original post by moonietoot)
    Prayer is all you need lol it'll never let you down. You might let it down though. Not you specifically.
    I say this about myself first before I say it about anyone else.

    Ahhhhh. I'm TIRED !!! should I sleep or nottttt to sleep - dilemma


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    Lol life is a confused gender indeed

    Yeah...IGY
    Hahaha go on get ur sleep im off nows coz have to get up at 5 to drive to B'ham fuuuarrrkkkk

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    Welcome back.


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    Had to make some food ... Finally realised my cooking skills are next to none


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    I should teach you how to be offensive in a modest way


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    Shareef style

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    Hello all m back


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