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    Long story short, i've confessed my love for a girl and she took it rather well even though she has a boyfriend (who also knows, didn't excatly take long for him to work it out), what is puzzling me right now, is that i feel that it isn't enough i wanna do more to show my feelings for this girl, i wanna shout it to the heavens

    I'm not sure what is happening to me, it's all becoming to mcuh for mel i'm normally good at this things and although i've got my eyes on someone and trying to move on, someone told me that the girl i'm try for right now might be nothing more than a distraction
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Long story short, i've confessed my love for a girl and she took it rather well even though she has a boyfriend (who also knows, didn't excatly take long for him to work it out), what is puzzling me right now, is that i feel that it isn't enough i wanna do more to show my feelings for this girl, i wanna shout it to the heavens

    I'm not sure what is happening to me, it's all becoming to mcuh for mel i'm normally good at this things and although i've got my eyes on someone and trying to move on, someone told me that the girl i'm try for right now might be nothing more than a distraction
    Those lovers that love most say least

    You've expressed your love for her it's up to her to decide if she loves u

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    Ok.
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    She has a boyfriend, as harsh as it sounds you'd be wasting your time and making yourself look a bit of a ****.
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    (Original post by sabian92)
    She has a boyfriend, as harsh as it sounds you'd be wasting your time and making yourself look a bit of a ****.
    i know that it won't change anything, but that doesn't seem to bother me for some reason, i know life isn't a fairytale; however my brain seems to think differently
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    If she's in a relationship it's probably gentlemanly of you to not say anything at all; now that you've confessed to her, however, to do anything more would really be shaky in my opinion.
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    (Original post by susseruss)
    Bide your time. Shout about it on the internet :P but maybe not in real life in case it makes her uncomfortable (which is the last thing you'd want).

    Good luck with the girl!
    She's rejected my every advance, so ofc that doesn't help matters
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i know that it won't change anything, but that doesn't seem to bother me for some reason, i know life isn't a fairytale; however my brain seems to think differently
    I don't think it is a waste of time.
    Life isn't a fairytale but what if she'd feel better with you than with her current boyfriend. To try is an opened door to good surprises.
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    If she has rejected your every advance, im not sure what you're asking for?
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    Yeah, if she's with her boyfriend who knows that you love her...and she's still not with you...I'd back off. (I wouldn't have declared in the first place, but whatever.)

    To do anything else isn't respecting anybody in the situation, least of all you.
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    She's taken. Move on to something else.
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    I did the same thing to be honest. She lives quite far away and I've known her for ages, and she knew I liked her in the past. Something made me come out with it whilst with her in the car and she had no idea I still had feelings for her, the night before she was heading back. I don't regret doing it. It has allowed me to move on
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    What did she say when you told her?
    I agree with the other posters in that you shouldn't do anything. I don't think it was a mistake telling her though, ball's now in her court.
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    Watch this movie, I think it will help you understand what you are going through.

    I have a movie which is very similar towards your love story. I think you'll find solace in it. Its a foregin movie but I have the subtitles. You'll find it interesting. If it doesn't, my fault then. I can't find the subs on youtube, dailymotion will have to do.

    Part one: http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xnd...s#.UOd1meTcmGM

    Part two: http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xnd...s#.UOd2K-TcmGM

    Part three: http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xnd...s#.UOd2E-TcmGM

    Part four: http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xnd...s#.UOd2YeTcmGM

    Part five:http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xnd...s#.UOd2LeTcmGM

    Part six: http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xnd...s#.UOd2leTcmGM

    Part seven: http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xnd...s#.UOd2k-TcmGM

    Part eight: http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xnd...s#.UOd2iOTcmGM

    Part nine: http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xnd...s#.UOd3sOTcmGM

    Its a bollywood film, but I want you to understand the story, hopefully it may inspire you to do something, but this is to ease your suffering. If the film didn't work, my fault. But the links are numbered. It should be easy to watch. Just click on the first link, once done, cancel the page you were watching and go on to the next one.


    You should be able to find the other parts, if not, then pm me.
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    If he wants to make a highly extravagant (but possibly awkward and embarrassing) gesture of love...why not? He knows all the details of the situation; her current feelings on the matter, she's taken, etc...

    If that's what you want to do, go for it bro! Sometimes you just have to take a leap of faith.

    Although...is her boyfriend the type that would **** you up if you ever tried anything with his girl? That's important.
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    I had a similar situation except I did'nt use the word as strong as love and she wasent going out with anyone at the time, I simply got rejected even though she liked me years before that. Coming from someone who did nothing after that I personally think you should do everything you can to show her you really care. I still think about this girl years later and just wish I did more to show her I truly care instead of just stopping there. Eventually I think you will win her over.

    Obviously you need to be careful about this and dont start acting like a stalker or bother her too much but if anyone said to me that they loved me and I rejected them I would still be thinking about that person because we all evaluate things and look back thinking was that the right decision?
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    What is this people's obsession with professing love? If you are in love with me, fine, I don't want to know about it. I don't want to get involved in it either. What's wrong with "let's just get on with my life"?

    When I was watching Peep Show where Jez tries to tell Dob that he loves her - I was thinking what is the point doing that?
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    Spray paint it on her drive, she'll find it really romantic
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    (Original post by marcus2001)
    Spray paint it on her drive, she'll find it really romantic
    Then rub the paint with alcohol and set it on fire...do it.
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    (Original post by Sulphur)
    Then rub the paint with alcohol and set it on fire...do it.
    That's just creepy and dangerous mate, I was getting at an inbetweeners reference
 
 
 
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