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    i have recently become really close to this guy.
    He has called me sexually attractive and very pretty and couple of weeks ago we got really intimate, but we never had sex ,we were on his bed and i was on top messing about with him and he was biting my neck and lips, but i left because i didnt want to make a mistake. The only reason i was doing it because i thought he liked me and so i started to like him and i still do.

    But then he always says i dont want to have sex with you (not that i do but i did ask him what are his motives with all this intimacy), i see you as my lil innocent vixen , your 19 and im 24 .im too old for you ;s

    However he's constantly saying tiny little things such as ,you better be facetiming a girl or getting competitive with the fact i talk to a lot of guys on instagram and he was like oh watch when i surpass you on followers and all these girls will be complementing me. I also had recent guy trouble and a guy slapped me when i rejected him , when i told him about this he was so angry and wanted to sort the person out. he does whats app almost every day and he says he finds me interesting and unique. Furthermore when he does flirt with me like are you wearing the skirt i like and im like no its not for bed,and annoyingly will be like oh i wasn't trying to flirt with you but you thought id find it sexy.

    I just don't know if hes playing games , or if some little of him is attracted to me??
    i don't know how to stay just friends its killing me , but i don't want to blurt out i like him and ruin our friendship.

    Tbh i think you're just going to have to spill the beans but add that you're well aware he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you but you felt he should know and hopefully this won't damage your friendship.
    It does seem like he's messing with you a little but maybe he's scared or something. i think k he is attracted to you but who knows. You are going to have to sit him down and just tell him, make sure his guard is down and ask him how he feels.

    All should be fine.

    Hope that helps.

    Tbh, I think he's saying what he thinks you want to hear. The fact you was on his bed and getting "close", I highly doubt he would have stopped if you didn't.
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