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    (Original post by ironandwine)
    re-read the end of my post, okay thank you

    "just tell them you're not interested and avoid all the hassle"

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    I read that, doesn't change the fact that you seemed to suggest that no fault lay with the woman though and by extrapolation that the guy should have realised the woman was uninterested.
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    (Original post by alexs2602)
    I read that, doesn't change the fact that you seemed to suggest that no fault lay with the woman though and by extrapolation that the guy should have realised the woman was uninterested.
    op asked if ignoring a guy makes them more interested, i gave my experiences in that it mostly does when i used to not tell the guy straight out. i then advised to avoid the hassle just tell the guy from the outset that yr not interested, not really at all suggesting that the guy should have the brain capacity to realise a woman not responding to any texts/calls/messages/etc isn't interested, is it, and it's not exactly leading the guy on if you tell them yr not interested. no.
 
 
 
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