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    My boyfriend has dumped me 3 - 4 times but each time we've "sorted it out". Recently things have actually been great, he's treating me really well, he seems genuinely happy and he tells me all the time how amazing and beautiful I am and how lucky he is.

    But.. I feel **** inside. I feel very insecure about myself and our relationship. I don't know what to do.

    Every time he dumped me I felt awful and just wanted him back but now I've got him back I don't feel happy like I thought I would. I just feel like I can't trust him even though he's been amazing recently

    How do I get past this? I'm humiliated but at the same time I love him and want things to go back to how they were
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    You are a strong, independent black woman and you don't need this capricious, selfish chump.
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    Why not, you know, talk to him about it?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My boyfriend has dumped me 3 - 4 times but each time we've "sorted it out". Recently things have actually been great, he's treating me really well, he seems genuinely happy and he tells me all the time how amazing and beautiful I am and how lucky he is.

    But.. I feel **** inside. I feel very insecure about myself and our relationship. I don't know what to do.

    Every time he dumped me I felt awful and just wanted him back but now I've got him back I don't feel happy like I thought I would. I just feel like I can't trust him even though he's been amazing recently

    How do I get past this? I'm humiliated but at the same time I love him and want things to go back to how they were
    I am sorry to hear this!

    I was in a similar situation a few years ago and I ended it with him and I am glad we did.

    You can't go on if you are not happy, my advice would be to end the relationship. It must 100% be your decision though!

    Good luck, whatever you decide xx
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    (Original post by joker12345)
    Why not, you know, talk to him about it?
    I have spoken to him, several times and he always apologises and says he's been an idiot... that doesn't make me feel better though
 
 
 
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