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    (Original post by insignificant)
    No worries Thankyou Again, it's all down to mind control. Maybe setting yourself targets, NOT REWARDS, but targets to reach. Don't ever reward yourself for not masturbating because then you won't ever train your mind to do it properly, you'll live from reward to reward. Maybe 3-month 6-month 9-month and 12-month milestones can be celebrated as points you have achieved to, to look back on and look how well you have done. Maybe get a jumper you couldn't justify buying, or some expensive chocolate or something. But don't give yourself immediate rewards for every time you overcome not masturbating.

    It's what I intend on doing, just a suggestion, I'm not dictating, I'm aware the way I type can sound imposing, I just ramble. Okay I'll shut up now! haha
    My boyfriend has offered me a great incentive. If I don't masturbate while we're apart, he'll give me unlimited oral when we're together (one weekend a month, occasionally more, in term time). That's why I admire you for doing it despite not having sex, total abstinence is hard for guys but much harder I think for girls.
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    When you think of it, masturbating is pretty disgusting as well.

    Just sitting in your room, stroking your fish-smelling todger with greasy hands and fantasising about a girl that is probably way out of your league...
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    Guys... I think Im going to give in today. Being going strong since the 8th, which is the longest I have abstained since I started the whole business, but I really don't see the point any more!

    However I will still be abstaining from pornography and using the power of imagination/girl's facebook holiday photos
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    (Original post by Jordan_1)
    Guys... I think Im going to give in today. Being going strong since the 8th, which is the longest I have abstained since I started the whole business, but I really don't see the point any more!

    However I will still be abstaining from pornography and using the power of imagination/girl's facebook holiday photos
    Don't quit brah, stay with us
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    (Original post by areebmazhar)
    Don't quit brah, stay with us
    hmm I'll go for a cold shower, see if it changes my mind.
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    I'll give you guys some moral support for your journey

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    (Original post by Willum Infanta)
    I'll give you guys some moral support for your journey

    Okay you're freaking me out, you're in Leeds and this looks strangely like my cousin.
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    (Original post by Willum Infanta)
    I'll give you guys some moral support for your journey
    Saved to my January 3rd 2014 w**kbank.
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    (Original post by insignificant)
    Okay you're freaking me out, you're in Leeds and this looks strangely like my cousin.
    :mmm:
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    (Original post by miser)
    Saved to my January 3rd 2014 w**kbank.
    lmao
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    I'm out.

    If it makes any difference, these last 12 days have felt like a year.
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    (Original post by Willum Infanta)
    I'll give you guys some moral support for your journey

    lmao, still no fapping but I can definitely appreciate her physique
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    I wonder if that is her Facebook profile picture...

    Actually, what I am wondering is why does one get a hard on from a pic like that? What's the reasoning behind it, possibly from a medical/psychological perspective? Maybe it has been explained before, if so please post the link.
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    Only just found this thread so i'm a late joiner, I'll just do it till the 20th of January 2014 (Hopefully :P)
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    (Original post by JackGriff)
    Only just found this thread so i'm a late joiner, I'll just do it till the 20th of January 2014 (Hopefully :P)
    Welcome aboard! :congrats:

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    I wonder if that is her Facebook profile picture...
    If that's her profile picture, think of her holiday photos...
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    (Original post by miser)
    If that's her profile picture, think of her holiday photos...
    To be honest, I don't want to think of her holiday photos. I don't even know her, so why should I even bother thinking about anything else? She could be someone that I would rather not know at all. Now only if I could apply this logic all the time.

    I hope that insignificant's post is put in the OP. Awesome post.
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    (Original post by hessajee)
    To be honest, I don't want to think of her holiday photos. I don't even know her, so why should I even bother thinking about anything else? She could be someone that I would rather not know at all. Now only if I could apply this logic all the time.
    I was joking.
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    (Original post by Jordan_1)
    Guys... I think Im going to give in today. Being going strong since the 8th, which is the longest I have abstained since I started the whole business, but I really don't see the point any more!

    However I will still be abstaining from pornography and using the power of imagination/girl's facebook holiday photos
    Please don't give in! If you've made it eight days, the next eight will be easier. After the first 16, the next 16 will be a piece of cake... And so it continues :rolleyes:
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    (Original post by insignificant)
    Okay you're freaking me out, you're in Leeds and this looks strangely like my cousin.
    Is that you in the pic? If so, I'm jealous of that bod . But why show a pic of you touching yourself when you claim to have stopped all that?
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    I haven't fapped in 2 weeks. Not because I'm taking part in this, I just haven't had the urge tbh.
 
 
 
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