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    After my previous post I am very ashamed to say this but: Add me to the failure list.
    I want a restart to be logged from the date this was posted. I'm not going to play around with that TBC crap.
    I have no idea how this happened.
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    (Original post by PureMathsigma)
    I'm doing it because I've tried it and the results are legit to me, the info about neuron rewiring on the front page has reassured me again (for now).

    I'm posting this so we can share obstacles.. mine is probably being alone. I'm only getting a noticeable urge now because it's the weekend.. very little interaction with others compared to weekdays where I talk so much. Ever since I stopped fapping though I have become very clearly more confident and don't feel tired or lazy anymore at school, I've noticed that some teachers are more impressed with my contributions and I don't have problems talking to girls like I used to. I don't think all of these can be down to a placebo effect, because fapping definitely made my mind feel instantly gratified and as a result lazy (i.e. thinking I would become more confident tomorrow, do more work tomorrow).

    Writing this post has made my will to keep going even firmer so thanks for replying. The most important part would be about fapping making you lazy.. because when you stop fapping you kind of HAVE to do something to be happy. I kind of HAVE to talk to girls now to get a feeling that I am getting closer to a legitimate form of relationship with a female. If I just fapped I would think "I'll do it next year" or some crap. And I can spend more time studying instead of fapping then feeling sleepy.
    What you have written is nearly identical to my own situation/thoughts, so thanks for replying with your side of the story.

    I've just phoned my landlady and told her all the issues I have with a particular house-mate who just does not want to cooperate on certain matters. I hope things get better in the next week because if it does not, either he can move out or I will. I need my sleep and I want to stop using masturbation as a sleeping pill to put myself to sleep. Final year of my degree and I don't want to screw up for any stupid reasons.

    For all those 'trolls' who think there are no benefits, etc, please go and do your own thing and leave us alone. Whatever our reasons are for stopping/quitting, etc. let us do it. Don't be that person who makes it harder to achieve our ambitions - we are not affecting yours.
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    (Original post by PureMathsigma)
    After my previous post I am very ashamed to say this but: Add me to the failure list.
    I want a restart to be logged from the date this was posted. I'm not going to play around with that TBC crap.
    I have no idea how this happened.
    OK, things happens. Now you need to reflect on why it happened? What could you do to avoid this situation again?

    On a personal level, I think it would be so much better if I could talk to someone in real life. Society and its taboos/jokes on this subject does not help. I think in about a month or when I feel ready, I'm going to start asking around and see if anyone wants to create a society/support group at my uni. Hopefully the Welfare and Diversity Officer will support this.

    Maybe these trolls are paid members of the porn industry, trying to keep it alive at every opportunity they get...
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    (Original post by Felix Felicis)
    Oh I bet it's getting hard alright :sexface:

    (Original post by PureMathsigma)
    Oh no man NO don't make it worse..
    This is how I imagined PureMathsigma saying that:

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    (Original post by The Mad Dog)
    You got yourself banned again one night.
    Yeah. But I'm back now.
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    I'm going to use up my final restart and join you again. From tonight.
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    Where's Sovr'gn?
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    (Original post by Cephalus)
    Yeah. But I'm back now.
    You want to share why?

    Also Sovr'gn got himself banned.
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    (Original post by Cephalus)
    Where's Sovr'gn?
    M'Lord. :adore:
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    (Original post by The Mad Dog)
    You want to share why?

    Also Sovr'gn got himself banned.
    'Trolling and offensiveness', which was little more than simply disagreeing with a gay person on the LGBT thread
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    (Original post by Cephalus)
    'Trolling and offensiveness', which was little more than simply disagreeing with a gay person on the LGBT thread
    You posted homophobic words didn't you?
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    (Original post by ipoop)
    M'Lord. :adore:
    Ipoop, its good to hear from you. How are you?


    (Original post by The Mad Dog)
    You posted homophobic words didn't you? :pierre:
    Not a single one. (It was a disagreement about a newspaper article)
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    (Original post by Cephalus)
    Not a single one. (It was a disagreement about a newspaper article)
    Bit heavy-handed.
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    (Original post by Cephalus)
    'Trolling and offensiveness', which was little more than simply disagreeing with a gay person on the LGBT thread
    That was why you were banned? Seems a bit harsh, unless I missed a few posts in those 2-3 hours.... :unsure:
    (Original post by Cephalus)
    Ipoop, its good to hear from you. How are you?
    Good, I bet you won't post in the land of rainbows and butterflies for a while then? :lol:
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    (Original post by The Mad Dog)
    Bit heavy-handed.
    Indeed I believe so. But bias moderators and all...


    (Original post by ipoop)
    That was why you were banned? Seems a bit harsh, unless I missed a few posts in those 2-3 hours.... :unsure:
    Indeed

    (Original post by ipoop)
    Good, I bet you won't post in the land of rainbows and butterflies for a while then? :lol:
    The land of what? You mean the gay thread? Not at all. I'm already there
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    (Original post by Cephalus)
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    I felt you symbolic neg. :sexface:

    I think your reputation and the hostility you get in that thread are why you were banned. :lol:
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    (Original post by Cephalus)
    Indeed I believe so. But bias moderators and all...
    What would happen if you were to get banned again? Would it be a longer ban?
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    (Original post by miser)
    What would happen if you were to get banned again? Would it be a longer ban?
    I'm on my last warning. Next ban is the perma


    (Original post by ipoop)
    I felt you symbolic neg. :sexface:

    I think your reputation and the hostility you get in that thread are why you were banned. :lol:
    I've just posted in that thread, and already I've been accused of trolling
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    (Original post by Cephalus)
    I'm on my last warning. Next ban is the perma
    You'll be missed. :rip:
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    (Original post by ipoop)
    You'll be missed. :rip:
    Well thank you, but I'm not going anywhere. I have to get banned first, and I'm going to be good. Or I might reincarnate myself as a different user before getting perma banned. Hmm I have options
 
 
 
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