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    You never really notice how much sex and women are used in advertising.
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    (Original post by Alix23)
    May I suggest another way to stop yourself: Holocaust films.
    You would have thought so. However, after such extreme stress and negativity (e.g. reading about the many problems in Africa, world poverty), you may just fail because of that...
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    Add me in! Starting on 05/01/13 at 10:10pm


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    (Original post by GottaLovePhysics! :))
    I hate to be the negative nancy here, but arnt you guys concerned about getting errections at the most innapropriate times because of this?

    Esspecially at the doctors or dentists, where you have to lie down.

    I had to lie down this afternoon to get a nip piercing by this feaky hot girl and im bloody glad I wasnt part of this little challange haha.
    I get erections at stupid times anyway. I got an erection like half an hour after I masturbated this morning(before I started the challenge) so I don't think that's a problem.
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    (Original post by The_Last_Melon)
    The people who make it deserve some kind of prize.
    I think the perfect prize would be a few of us girls offering BJs for anyone who makes it through the year without spilling their seed who doesn't have a girlfriend by the end if the year. If I didn't already have a BF, I'd be in .

    Seriously though, I don't think it's needed. IMO one of the biggest benefits of quitting masturbation is that it gives guys the strongest incentive to treat girls really well, which means few of you who manage it will be girlfriend-less by the end of the challenge...
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    (Original post by GottaLovePhysics! :))
    I hate to be the negative nancy here, but arnt you guys concerned about getting errections at the most innapropriate times because of this?

    Esspecially at the doctors or dentists, where you have to lie down.

    I had to lie down this afternoon to get a nip piercing by this feaky hot girl and im bloody glad I wasnt part of this little challange haha.
    It's all part of the challenge. That's a necessary trouble unfortunately.

    (Original post by Manic Euphoria)
    We are supposed to go for a year?
    Went for two months last time and I looked like this
    :nuts:
    Indeed.

    The longest I've been is 117 days. There were times when I went nuts within that time period; however, I shamefully admit that prior to actually failing (on the 116th/117th day), I didn't actually feel like I was going nuts - the failure just more or less happened.
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    (Original post by rm22)
    Add me in! Starting on 05/01/13 at 10:10pm


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    Done deal - welcome aboard! :congrats:
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    (Original post by EmmaBurton)
    I think the perfect prize would be a few of us girls offering BJs for anyone who makes it through the year without spilling their seed who doesn't have a girlfriend by the end if the year. If I didn't already have a BF, I'd be in .

    Seriously though, I don't think it's needed. IMO one of the biggest benefits of quitting masturbation is that it gives guys the strongest incentive to treat girls really well, which means few of you who manage it will be girlfriend-less by the end of the challenge...
    That would just encourage people to lie and cheat for a free bj.

    I think the satisfaction of knowing you manage to do it should suffice.
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    Count me in starting 05/01/13
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    (Original post by EmmaBurton)
    I think the perfect prize would be a few of us girls offering BJs for anyone who makes it through the year without spilling their seed who doesn't have a girlfriend by the end if the year. If I didn't already have a BF, I'd be in .

    Seriously though, I don't think it's needed. IMO one of the biggest benefits of quitting masturbation is that it gives guys the strongest incentive to treat girls really well, which means few of you who manage it will be girlfriend-less by the end of the challenge...
    challenge accepted
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    I saw this on another forum. I last had sex on the 28th and last had a **** on the 31st.

    Easy
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    (Original post by Sovr'gnChancellor£)
    Glad to have you on board!



    And I was just about to add you too. But, I'm interested - how exactly did you manage to fail in a minute? :holmes:
    Let's just say that when you practice something a lot, you get quite adept at it.
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    (Original post by Sovr'gnChancellor£)
    The reason why I directed it more to males than females is that I believe that abstaining would procure more benefits for males than females - I'm not entirely sure if females have as many or the same kind of benefits as men do with abstinence and a redirection of energy.

    It was by no means a sexual endeavour.
    I think the benefits are at least as big for girls. With guys, it's the same organ you're using for masturbation and sex; with girls it's also about redirecting our energies and focus away from the clitoris and towards the vagina, so we get our enjoyment from penetration rather than the clit.
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    (Original post by Sovr'gnChancellor£)
    I'd be interested in knowing if girls actually perceive any benefits from abstaining, much like males do? Any contributions?
    Definitely. I'm tempted to start a 'No DIY 2013' thread for girls. I don't masturbate, never have done, so I'll be the first to sign up
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    YES I'm in, not sure if I'll last the year, but I'm in, 05/01/2013 22:21

    EDIT: Could I have a quick final farewell fap now, and change my time when I'm done?
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    (Original post by Sovr'gnChancellor£)
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    Add me. I last did it on the 2nd of Jan.
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    (Original post by EmmaBurton)
    Definitely. I'm tempted to start a 'No DIY 2013' thread for girls. I don't masturbate, never have done, so I'll be the first to sign up
    Pointless if you don't do it..?
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    (Original post by Sovr'gnChancellor£)
    Who, like myself, is embarking on this great and challenging journey? :proud:

    I began on 01/01/2013 00:00. If you too began then, then all the better for a full 2013! However, if you still want to take part, by all means begin now! Be a man! (Sorry, no women allowed EDIT: Actually, females may join, if you can convince me that you'll actually be able to procure benefits from abstaining, much like males do)!

    So, rules are as follows:

    - No touching whatsoever (except for clear and non-sexual reasons/purposes - e.g. shower etc).

    - No stroking whatsoever.

    - No auto-fellatio whatsoever (who in the hell can do that anyway? :lolwut: )

    - No porn whatsoever (however, this is a bonus rule - but it makes sense to abstain from this also).

    - No ejaculation (unless with another person, then this challenge clearly wouldn't matter to you, unless of course, you wanted to abstain from solo sexual activities in order to be more potent and virile for mutual sexual encounters :ahee: ).

    Just enjoy your horniness lads and let that productivity, motivation and confidence rocket up and see your positive social interaction and confidence with girls exponentially increase!

    (P.S. At the time of writing, I am proud to say that today will be day 5 )

    So, who's in?
    I'll gladly put your name down and we can post here, as we're all in this together (not in the "Call me dave" manner). Also, if you fail (or, indeed, are in danger of failing), post here to notify (where you will be named and shamed )/for some support. Also, (even though I've now mentioned it too late), state the date on which you began.

    Current participants:

    [EDIT: This list is really growing, guys - keep 'em coming!]
    [EDIT2: Wow, I have to say that the rapid rate in which this list is increasing and the more people we're getting on board, is greatly increasing motivation! Nice work!]

    Myself :proud: (Sovr'gnChancellor£) (Began 01/01/2013)
    Dagnabbit
    AndrewD95
    Acroamathematics
    Lol_Fish
    RobertWhite
    RadioHawk
    EstebanK0
    ilem
    jones107
    The_Last_Melon
    {Unregistered}
    Robbie242
    jarasta
    90pies an hour
    diggy
    Valdo
    KJKA
    HFerguson
    (Began 22/12/2012)
    RYRK
    Mazzini
    IdeasForLife
    havana-affair
    (Began Dec 2012)
    IDukem
    Xmarksthesh0t
    (Began 01/01/2010)
    jam277
    danny111
    miser
    jackclarke1995
    Pinkhead
    CoolRunner
    Sai4
    SirMasterkey [FAILED!]
    Donor1284
    hessajee
    Derrick1509
    Alix23
    (Began 06/01/2013)
    PureMathsigma (Began 05/01/2013)
    geetar (01/010/2013)
    Manic Euphoria
    (December 2012)
    Choppie (Began 28/12/2012)
    KD35
    Blob2491
    rm22
    (Began 05/01/2013)


    (P.S. This isn't just pure abstinence; it's a complete redirection of energies. This means - be a bit more daring, heroic, do more sports, go out more, socialise more and more with females or males and increase confidence and dominance.)
    This is near impossible for people doing it outwith religion.
    Best of luck to you guys and I'll be sure to join in but I think doing it once a week should be the task instead.
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    (Original post by Blob2491)
    After much deliberation I've convinced myself...I'm in fellas!
    Good to have you on board! Added!
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    (Original post by SirMasterKey)
    Actually take me off. I enjoy a good fap every now and then. I'm not going to go a whole year without it.

    I should probably cut down and I'll do that but not take it out my life completely!
    Surely you have the strength to do this one thing? Other guys are saying they can.
 
 
 
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