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    (Original post by hessajee)
    I don't want to search for the person mentioned, but sometimes you see a girl in clothes that make her look hot and that might be enough to get off to. Although it is most probably easier to get off to a naked person.

    So I restarted on 31st Jan and so far its been going well. I think the lack of sleep plus the dozens of jobs and studying to do this week are keeping me busy. I need to abstain to fix my sleep again as I've moved house on Sunday (so no more disturbances from roommates waking up at 5 am hopefully) and make a rational decision on a graduate offer that I was given on Monday. Got till Friday to make a decision and this evening just flew by. I have no idea what I should have done by tomorrow. Keep on forgetting with the lack of sleep.
    I'm dying atm. I changed my sleeping pattern by 1 hour yesterday and I am knackered now.
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    (Original post by Bluffroom)
    I'm dying atm. I changed my sleeping pattern by 1 hour yesterday and I am knackered now.
    I wish I could offer you a release, I feel so bad for some of you. All you strong willed alpha males are so admirable for doing this, it will attract more women as we love confidence and aggression, just keep at it.
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    Failed yesterday. I blame pornography and being at home alone and not occupying myself enough. Started again today I want to beat one week!

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    Hey everyone, quick update, I'm doing okay! I was very VERY VERRRRRRRYYYYYYYYY tempted this morning but I grabbed my phone and rung the hairdressers and booked an appointment so I had to get ready for that then was there for over 2 hours, and now I'm back and found out I've done better than I thought in my essays

    However I have noticed I'm rewarding myself more than I should, I keep seeing stuff online and thinking why the hell not and buying it . Ahh well, YOLO. Can't believe I just said that but completely applies to my life right now.
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    (Original post by Slothsftws)
    I wish I could offer you a release, I feel so bad for some of you. All you strong willed alpha males are so admirable for doing this, it will attack more women as we love confidence and aggression, just keep at it.
    Hehe that was unrelated - i had exams so went to sleep eary and my body doesn't like it
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    (Original post by miser)
    Tease her, have fun with her, playfully push her, etc. If she's giggling the whole time, you won't even have to say it. And if you are on a walk, and things are going well, making out's not out of the range of possibilities either.
    Thanks for the suggestions Miser, however i am sad to announce that i have given up. Not into all the hard to read / difficult to understand nonsense. Stressing me out before i go away on saturday so i'm just going to [try to] forget about it.
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    4 days thus far ,came back from Turkey didnt bust.any nuts .We'll see tonight

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    (Original post by Slothsftws)
    I wish I could offer you a release, I feel so bad for some of you. All you strong willed alpha males are so admirable for doing this, it will attract more women as we love confidence and aggression, just keep at it.
    I agree 100%
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    I'm indifferent about it now to be honest. If I fail, I fail and if I don't, I don't BUT I know that I can go without for a while and I'll try and prolong it as far as I can but it does seem to get harder and harder for me.

    Fair play to Miser and other who have lasted like a month + though!! Tremendous will power by you guys
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    (Original post by JLXP)
    Thanks for the suggestions Miser, however i am sad to announce that i have given up. Not into all the hard to read / difficult to understand nonsense. Stressing me out before i go away on saturday so i'm just going to [try to] forget about it.
    why you given up brah? Have I missed something? Thought you were going to go on a car ride with her or something :/
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    (Original post by areebmazhar)
    why you given up brah? Have I missed something? Thought you were going to go on a car ride with her or something :/
    Oh yeah, I forgot about that.. I wanna know what happened to the car ride too! It sounds like he's stuck in the friend zone but I'd love to know if there's any progression.

    Btw, Miser has sadly been banned for a week. He'll be back on Valentine's day coincidentally.
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    I'm going to start this up again. Plus I still get porn flashbacks sometimes so it could actually be tangibly beneficial. In!
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    I have decided to give this a shot. Four days so far!
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    (Original post by areebmazhar)
    why you given up brah? Have I missed something? Thought you were going to go on a car ride with her or something :/

    (Original post by RichyFrench)
    Oh yeah, I forgot about that.. I wanna know what happened to the car ride too! It sounds like he's stuck in the friend zone but I'd love to know if there's any progression.

    Btw, Miser has sadly been banned for a week. He'll be back on Valentine's day coincidentally.
    to cut a long story short: i could have finished class at 10:30 but decided to stay until 13:30 to keep her company, which was when she said we could go on a ride. Whilst walking to her car she was going on about how much fuel is costing her and she is struggling to afford it etc, so i felt bad just going for a drive for the sake of it, so i asked what she fancied doing. we went back into college and chatted until 12:30 which is when she left to go and see her friend and that was that.
    She DID suggest that we watch a film in the back of her car on her laptop, which was something, but i think thats a spur of the moment thing.
    I was going to ask her out out whilst parked up in the car so didnt get an opportunity, did suggest we go into town via text and she seemed up for it, however.
    Bloody hope i'm not in the friend-zone, she's AWESOME guys.
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    (Original post by JLXP)
    to cut a long story short: i could have finished class at 10:30 but decided to stay until 13:30 to keep her company, which was when she said we could go on a ride. Whilst walking to her car she was going on about how much fuel is costing her and she is struggling to afford it etc, so i felt bad just going for a drive for the sake of it, so i asked what she fancied doing. we went back into college and chatted until 12:30 which is when she left to go and see her friend and that was that.
    She DID suggest that we watch a film in the back of her car on her laptop, which was something, but i think thats a spur of the moment thing.
    I was going to ask her out out whilst parked up in the car so didnt get an opportunity, did suggest we go into town via text and she seemed up for it, however.
    Bloody hope i'm not in the friend-zone, she's AWESOME guys.
    At this stage she's obviously into you. Flirt a bit more and make a move next time you see her. The situation doesn't have to be perfect so try not to play it up in your head... easier said than done I know but try
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    (Original post by JLXP)
    to cut a long story short: i could have finished class at 10:30 but decided to stay until 13:30 to keep her company, which was when she said we could go on a ride. Whilst walking to her car she was going on about how much fuel is costing her and she is struggling to afford it etc, so i felt bad just going for a drive for the sake of it, so i asked what she fancied doing. we went back into college and chatted until 12:30 which is when she left to go and see her friend and that was that.
    She DID suggest that we watch a film in the back of her car on her laptop, which was something, but i think thats a spur of the moment thing.
    I was going to ask her out out whilst parked up in the car so didnt get an opportunity, did suggest we go into town via text and she seemed up for it, however.
    Bloody hope i'm not in the friend-zone, she's AWESOME guys.
    She invited you to watch a movie in the back of her car?? Dude, she's into you. Ask her again about that film, but talk about watching it at her house or yours.. It'd be 'more comfortable'.
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    (Original post by tooosh)
    At this stage she's obviously into you. Flirt a bit more and make a move next time you see her. The situation doesn't have to be perfect so try not to play it up in your head... easier said than done I know but try
    Do you think? My friends seem to think that, but i just seem pretty oblivious to it, either that or she's playing stupidly hard to get. Thanks for the advice tooosh, i'm away for a week on saturday so won't hear from her but hopefully she'll text me when i get back, that would be awesome.
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    (Original post by RichyFrench)
    She invited you to watch a movie in the back of her car?? Dude, she's into you. Ask her again about that film, but talk about watching it at her house or yours.. It'd be 'more comfortable'.
    hahaha, yes we should 'watch the film' at my house :rolleyes: Really need this to work out, so i'll mention the manchester date to her when im back from holiday and see what she says.

    Crazy how girls mess with your head, isn't it.
 
 
 
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