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    Are you guys going to put your "records" on your CVs?
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    (Original post by Choppie)
    Day 45. Still going strong...just about.
    Good work man. That's over 6 weeks, fantastic.

    (Original post by Kutta)
    Just wanted to let u guys know, since December 2012 im still going strong ! I banged a girl though if that counts, I enjoyed the jizzing process in a way which never happened before. It just kept coming out. It was like a Dam which had just been broken by the water and then all the water came rushing out.
    Great to hear that it's affecting you positively in a very noticeable way. That's definitely one thing that you can say isn't placebo.

    (Original post by usainlightning)
    Just completed 20 days. 2 days until my record.
    Keep going dawg. Get today done with and that's 3 whole weeks. If you can do that, you can easily get another week and shatter your record.

    (Original post by mrgunde)
    Are you guys going to put your "records" on your CVs?
    I never considered that, but there may be some way to phrase it which plays in your favour Shows a massive amount of willpower and self-control.
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    Failed again this afternoon . It's me hormones! Figured I may as well go for multiples in the hope I'd be able to get it up of my system.

    Trouble is, I've got this deal with my boyfriend saying if I refrain from strumming between our weekends together he'll give me unlimited Os when he's with me (plenty of oral ) but if I fail, it's the missionary position and minimal foreplay only, ie no chance of me cumming . Wondering whether I should accidentally on purpose forget to tell him...
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    Dam it, I ****ed up, restarting tomorrow for the last time


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    (Original post by KatieMM)
    Failed again this afternoon . It's me hormones! Figured I may as well go for multiples in the hope I'd be able to get it up of my system.

    Trouble is, I've got this deal with my boyfriend saying if I refrain from strumming between our weekends together he'll give me unlimited Os when he's with me (plenty of oral ) but if I fail, it's the missionary position and minimal foreplay only, ie no chance of me cumming . Wondering whether I should accidentally on purpose forget to tell him...
    The deal is in place for a reason. If you're gonna give up, then it doesn't matter and you can go back to normal. If you wanna carry on, you've gotta tell him so you're accountable for your actions.
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    I started on the 12th Feb, no real urges so far, reading that story about the monkey was a shocker.
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    I'm baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaack.
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    4 weeks in...
    Busted nuts on myself last night while I was asleep, there was so much I thought I wet myself!
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    50 days for me and like above ^ my wet dreams are more like floods
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    (Original post by areebmazhar)
    50 days for me and like above ^ my wet dreams are more like floods
    It's like waking up in a savannah flood basin.
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    (Original post by RichyFrench)
    The deal is in place for a reason. If you're gonna give up, then it doesn't matter and you can go back to normal. If you wanna carry on, you've gotta tell him so you're accountable for your actions.
    You're right of course. Have just texted him. It means I'm at least six weeks from my next orgasm. Am convinced this is harder for girls than guys.
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    (Original post by KatieMM)
    You're right of course. Have just texted him. It means I'm at least six weeks from my next orgasm. Am convinced this is harder for girls than guys.
    Glad you owned up to it. Having to lie about it would show that you don't have that behaviour fully under control. When did you have your last orgasm? Mine was 58 days ago. Basically 2 months. 6 weeks is manageable

    Was so close to failing a few days ago. Was really horny and almost convinced myself I could quit. Thankfully I'm accountable to Miser and he helped put me back on track. It'll be 66 days completed once it turns midnight
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    (Original post by KatieMM)
    You're right of course. Have just texted him. It means I'm at least six weeks from my next orgasm. Am convinced this is harder for girls than guys.
    Woah now. Don't jump to conclusions

    And unlucky. But don't worry, except last week I've been about 3 months without an orgasm. You learn to stop needing it and your happiness depends on sex much less. Three cheers for resensitization.
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    (Original post by RichyFrench)
    Was so close to failing a few days ago. Was really horny and almost convinced myself I could quit. Thankfully I'm accountable to Miser and he helped put me back on track. It'll be 66 days completed once it turns midnight
    Knew you had it in you. (And looks like it'll stay in you. :awesome:)
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    (Original post by miser)
    Knew you had it in you. (And looks like it'll stay in you. :awesome:)
    Why were you banned?
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    (Original post by Tuerin)
    Why were you banned?
    In the opinion of a moderator I encouraged a person to commit suicide. (I contest that of course.)
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    Had started again, lasted two days until "something EVIL" was made free. First time I watched porn in a month. So disappointed now. (Wanted to stop watching it full stop)


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    I failed again

    I'm not sure how many times to keep trying..
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    (Original post by insignificant)
    I failed again

    I'm not sure how many times to keep trying..
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    Had started again, lasted two days until "something EVIL" was made free. First time I watched porn in a month. So disappointed now. (Wanted to stop watching it full stop)


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    Sorry to hear that. Just to let you know I've stopped fapping for over 50 days now and I have no desire to go back. But it was a very difficult journey. It took me over 2 years to stop fapping though as I kept relapsing. Some periods of fapstinence would last only 2 days, some about 2 weeks. But if I had a bad day and then was left by myself in the house, I would just go back to the porn. I would try and talk myself out of it but eventually it was no use and I would just get out the alexis texas videos. Just like you I was about to give up. I had failed way too many times. Would I ever stop fapping? I told myself I was too weak minded

    But then I made the decision to try one more time, this time there was something different, some inner motivation. I didn't want to be like all the other sweaty teenage boys fapping away in their room, I wanted to be above them. I had lost 5st before. I had come from one of the worst deprived schools in the UK and still got good grades. All I needed to do was transfer that motivation and perseverance into this new goal of not fapping. And this is where I am now, more than 50 days fap free and the desire has been eradicated.

    The moral of my little life story is firstly, never give up. As cliche as that sounds, keep trying and trying and trying. It took me over 2 years before I finally stopped fapping, it will take time but ti's worth it in the end. It does get easier, up to the first 3-4 weeks will be difficult but after that it's just an easy ride. Also try and find some inner motivation. Why do you want to quit? Why did you fail last time? What changes are you going to make this time? Do you REALLY WANT to stop or just 'kind of' want it?

    Hold yourself with the highest regard, never settle for second best, and only accept the finest quality

    Good luck
 
 
 
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