Hey there! Sign in to join this conversationNew here? Join for free
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by MostUncivilised)
    I just thought it was funny that a boy who won't even touch his willy (and presumably no girl will either) was lecturing me about sex and how to get it.
    Firstly Lol.

    MostUncivilised just leave it; go revise, read a book or do something useful; this guy isn't worth your time.

    Pardon the ironic statement but this guy desperately needs to Fap.
    Offline

    15
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Better)
    Firstly Lol.

    MostUncivilised just leave it; go revise, read a book or do something useful; this guy isn't worth your time.

    Pardon the ironic statement but this guy desperately needs to Fap.
    This post only serves to highlight your bias in this argument. MostUncivilised tl;dr'd one of my posts and it's obvious that it was because he couldn't think of anything and not that he couldn't be bothered, for he then proceeded to start a new line of argument.

    Course I'm not worth your time... if logic isn't worth your time
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by tooosh)
    This post only serves to highlight your bias in this argument. MostUncivilised tl;dr'd one of my posts and it's obvious that it was because he couldn't think of anything and not that he couldn't be bothered, for he then proceeded to start a new line of argument.

    Course I'm not worth your time... if logic isn't worth your time
    Thanks, please don't quote me again, I am just going to read this thread if anyone has any thing useful to say; Brb smashing exams and getting A*AA for my A-levels.

    Take care.
    Offline

    15
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Better)
    Thanks, please don't quote me again, I am just going to read this thread if anyone has any thing useful to say; Brb smashing exams and getting A*AA for my A-levels.

    Take care.
    Sad state of A-levels if you can get A*AA with that level of being able to think for yourself...

    But I've also had enough of this argument. If either of you ever take more rational and unbiased perspectives and stop making things up when it suits you then I'm happy to continue at a later date.

    Anyway, 1 month again!
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    8 days. Now looking for the 1 month target. Also did a fast the other day. Feels good.
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Dr Pesto)
    I will wait with baited breath.
    Okay, I've finally put time aside to respond. But first:

    (Original post by MostUncivilised)
    I thought the NoFap proponents claimed that it results in the opposite, that men and women will find you irresistible and your sexual power will be increased many fold.
    I was going to respond to this, as I thought you were expressing genuine curiosity but after reading the other posts you've made since I've concluded you're simply here to instigate crap so I won't bother.

    ________________________________ __________

    Anyway Pesto, the best way to answer your question is to tell what has occurred to me during my experience, whether they can actually be accredited to Nofap directly or not is up to one's perception:

    -I got promoted at work. A result of me becoming more focused, and taking my work prospects a bit more seriously no doubt. Before Nofap work was pretty much just a means to keep a roof under my head and food to eat; gratifying myself made me complacent and put a band aid on my feelings of inadequacy.

    -My taste in females has matured greatly. While before I found a large majority of them unattractive when compared to the likes of pornstars x,y and z, now I am an advocate of more natural beauty. An amazing smile and bright eyes turns me on more than simple cleavage and ass.

    -Speaking of which, I have an easier time engaging and maintaining eye contact. I found it difficult to look people in the eye, and treat them as peers when I had been sitting in a room alone and playing with myself an hour or so prior.

    -This also bleeds into physical contact. I am far less reluctant to touch people, before I would be hesitant to do something like grab someone's shoulder as a gesture of friendship because my hands were less of a tool for developing rapport and more of a tool for my own pleasure.

    -I mentioned complacency earlier. Before Nofap, if I had finished work or had time off in the morning I would masturbate and feel satisfied with my lot in life. Probably from the serotonin and endorphin's. Whereas now when I at home, I am constantly doing productive things or at least thinking about them. I have become much more aware of my position (or lack thereof) in life.

    -Having the power to quit masturbation and porn, finally convinced me I had the power to quit video games. I've been free of them for 124 days now.

    -Now I no longer have masturbation as a crutch, if I am stressed out I have to find an alternative and much more long-term method of reducing said stress. This approach also helps with hobby engagement.

    -I am much more keen to interact with women, because I no longer "interact" with them at home.

    -I appreciate music much more, in-fact I'd say I get a majority of my dopamine kick from it now. That and when I have an engaging conversation with someone.

    -I am much more in-tune with my body. I know when urges are on-set, and how to deal with them before they arise too far. I am well-versed in dealing with any negative feelings I have, in regards to not getting any sexual release or well, just being single in general.

    I can't really think of any more off the top of my head.
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    So I only managed 10 days :erm: but I'm not really that bothered, it's not like it was going to last forever ... I will just try to go longer than 10 days next time (which is from now on)

    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    Heard something good today. When you start to think about it try to get the blood to pool in other areas of the body eg in your hands by pressing them against each other (kind of like a prayer but with lots of pressure in your palms).
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    So in my 9th day off I got a stunning girls number , couldn't really believe it myself when I first did it , im dying for one right now but I feel I may become a shell of the bossmode version of me which seems to come out when I abstain . I also worry that the effects may "wear off" if I abstain for too long.
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    Would not dare, sorry.

    I can't even go 1 day without doing it, let alone going weeks and months.


    Posted from TSR Mobile
    Offline

    12
    ReputationRep:
    I'm going to try doing this again. Lets see if I can go beyond 6 weeks this time.

    Inb4 forever on day one of No fap crew
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    I'm new here but I definitively want to try this. I tried stopping before and couldn't which means that the activity we're all talking about here is in fact - addictive. Please add me to the list.
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    I'm new here. The last time I've fapped was last Saturday 15/06/2013. I've decided to stop one year. Please add me to the list.
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    Are there any other girls still doing this challenge? I've been finding it tough. But it cost me my boyfriend so there's no way I'm giving in. Seriously thinking of getting a FWB though. If a fit guy ideally quite posh turned up who was good at oral and didn't want anything in return, I'd be sorely tempted....
    Offline

    15
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by KatieMM)
    Are there any other girls still doing this challenge? I've been finding it tough. But it cost me my boyfriend so there's no way I'm giving in. Seriously thinking of getting a FWB though. If a fit guy ideally quite posh turned up who was good at oral and didn't want anything in return, I'd be sorely tempted....
    I lasted a day, so no.
    Offline

    16
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Holby_fanatic)
    I lasted a day, so no.
    Just a day?! I thought i was always horny and i can make it three days :laugh:
    Offline

    15
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by james1211)
    Just a day?! I thought i was always horny and i can make it three days :laugh:
    I know, it's shameful. I really tried as well. :lol:
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    can't believe I've lasted this long I feel weird
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by KatieMM)
    Are there any other girls still doing this challenge? I've been finding it tough. But it cost me my boyfriend so there's no way I'm giving in. Seriously thinking of getting a FWB though. If a fit guy ideally quite posh turned up who was good at oral and didn't want anything in return, I'd be sorely tempted....
    Im a girl and I'm still on this challenge!x try and keep yourself occupied Hun, you can do it.
    Offline

    9
    ReputationRep:
    been two weeks now. dont think ive gone this long since the first time i tugged the tiger 4 years ago.
 
 
 
  • See more of what you like on The Student Room

    You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

  • Poll
    Did TEF Bronze Award affect your UCAS choices?
    Useful resources
    AtCTs

    Ask the Community Team

    Got a question about the site content or our moderation? Ask here.

    Welcome Lounge

    Welcome Lounge

    We're a friendly bunch. Post here if you're new to TSR.

    Groups associated with this forum:

    View associated groups
  • See more of what you like on The Student Room

    You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

  • The Student Room, Get Revising and Marked by Teachers are trading names of The Student Room Group Ltd.

    Register Number: 04666380 (England and Wales), VAT No. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: International House, Queens Road, Brighton, BN1 3XE

    Quick reply
    Reputation gems: You get these gems as you gain rep from other members for making good contributions and giving helpful advice.