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    (Original post by Splenge007)
    Knowing her, she probably did Or maybe VM.

    Had any girls PM/VM you in the past year? She might be one of them
    Spill the beans bro , in a PM to him at least , im sure you'd like to know if you were in the situation..
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    (Original post by Jaegon Targaryen)
    Spill the beans bro , in a PM to him at least , im sure you'd like to know if you were in the situation..
    I'd love to if I was absolutely certain it was her. Besides, dunno if there's any point now, she's not here and miser's got someone in else in mind

    (Original post by miser)
    Yeah I guess I have had a few. Of the single ones though, :dontknow:. :holmes:
    She came across outgoing, so if she did contact you, she'd most likely make it obvious she liked you (if you were the guy).

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    (Original post by Splenge007)
    She came across outgoing, so if she did contact you, she'd most likely make it obvious she liked you (if you were the guy).

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    Nah I don't remember anyone like that.

    In other news though, I asked out the girl I mentioned.. and I'm now in a relationship.
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    (Original post by miser)
    Nah I don't remember anyone like that.

    In other news though, I asked out the girl I mentioned.. and I'm now in a relationship.
    Congrats!

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    (Original post by miser)
    Nah I don't remember anyone like that.

    In other news though, I asked out the girl I mentioned.. and I'm now in a relationship.
    well in! so has nofap actually worked for you then ?

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    (Original post by Pennyarcade)
    well in! so has nofap actually worked for you then ?

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    Maybe. It ties in somewhere, but nofap never seemed to have much of a causal relationship with my confidence, and I haven't adhered to it strictly either. I did it for 90 days at the beginning of the year, then went back to doing it, then quit porn in September, then limited myself to doing it once per month maximum.

    Just recently I broke from my once-per-limit maximum, but that was just 2 days ago. I currently feel that I want to try to get rid of arbitrary limitations and just listen to my body. If I need an outlet then give myself an outlet, but if I don't then don't bother. I have severely gone off the idea of knocking one out just as a matter of course, since compared to the once-per-month ones they're exceptionally lacklustre.

    I think that if I was to critically assess it all, I'd say that nofap was one of many things that has helped me improve myself over the year. It was one self-discipline challenge among many (though it was probably the hardest). I think that confidence is more of a habit than anything. It's won through tiny increments over time by expanding your comfort zone and refusing to let it retreat again. I've done a lot of things that have had this effect - I've taught aikido lessons, chatted more to girls, got involved more with TSR, improved my wardrobe, etc. In the past week I've had dates with 3 different girls. I'm not a different person or anything, but I've let myself become more expressive and taken more risks.

    I can't credit nofap because I don't know how much it played into it, but anything that gives you a feeling of accomplishment and a sense of control over yourself is a good thing.
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    Birdlocked Pico finally arrived today. Can't wait to try it on. Tested the spikes with my finger, they are extremely flexible and bendy, can't imagine how it would feel down there. Time to give No Fap a painful twist.
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    Just tried out the Pico. Initially found it pretty hard to get the penis + balls through the ring (the disadvantage of a one-piece kit). Slid in while soft, and wow. This thing really does punish erections. 17 spikes all over the head that press into you, should you ever get an erection. The device is designed such that locking it down requires you to pull the device downwards, so that the spikes are (lightly) brushing against the flaccid head. But one sexual thought and you're doomed. Fun for short-term play, but the CB6000 is still better for long-term wear, in my opinion (that being said, the ordinary Birdlocked would be great for long-term wear with no spikes and a larger ring).

    Can't see any way anyone could have an orgasm in this, unless they were a serious pain slut.
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    (Original post by Zhy)
    Birdlocked Pico finally arrived today. Can't wait to try it on. Tested the spikes with my finger, they are extremely flexible and bendy, can't imagine how it would feel down there. Time to give No Fap a painful twist.
    Why do you have so many chastity devices? Why do you have any?
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    Any chance i could add you on twitter?
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    Anyone in for 2014 no fap?
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    (Original post by Tigerheart)
    Anyone in for 2014 no fap?
    Miser can you make a 2014 thread? If not, I'll be happy to do it


    (Original post by miser)
    Maybe. It ties in somewhere, but nofap never seemed to have much of a causal relationship with my confidence, and I haven't adhered to it strictly either. I did it for 90 days at the beginning of the year, then went back to doing it, then quit porn in September, then limited myself to doing it once per month maximum.

    Just recently I broke from my once-per-limit maximum, but that was just 2 days ago. I currently feel that I want to try to get rid of arbitrary limitations and just listen to my body. If I need an outlet then give myself an outlet, but if I don't then don't bother. I have severely gone off the idea of knocking one out just as a matter of course, since compared to the once-per-month ones they're exceptionally lacklustre.

    I think that if I was to critically assess it all, I'd say that nofap was one of many things that has helped me improve myself over the year. It was one self-discipline challenge among many (though it was probably the hardest). I think that confidence is more of a habit than anything. It's won through tiny increments over time by expanding your comfort zone and refusing to let it retreat again. I've done a lot of things that have had this effect - I've taught aikido lessons, chatted more to girls, got involved more with TSR, improved my wardrobe, etc. In the past week I've had dates with 3 different girls. I'm not a different person or anything, but I've let myself become more expressive and taken more risks.

    I can't credit nofap because I don't know how much it played into it, but anything that gives you a feeling of accomplishment and a sense of control over yourself is a good thing.
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    (Original post by AreebWithaHat)
    Miser can you make a 2014 thread? If not, I'll be happy to do it
    I don't think I'll be consistant with the thread
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    (Original post by Tigerheart)
    I don't think I'll be consistant with the thread
    It will be a good idea to make one anyway, I'm tempted to make it..
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    (Original post by AreebWithaHat)
    It will be a good idea to make one anyway, I'm tempted to make it..
    Go ahead, serious dude I cant keep up with threads like these ones
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    (Original post by Tigerheart)
    Go ahead, serious dude I cant keep up with threads like these ones
    Will do tonight
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    (Original post by AreebWithaHat)
    Miser can you make a 2014 thread? If not, I'll be happy to do it
    I don't think that I will be participating in NoFap 2014 so I think it wouldn't be appropriate for me to create the thread - if you'll be participating then the honour's all yours. :yy:
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    (Original post by miser)
    I don't think that I will be participating in NoFap 2014 so I think it wouldn't be appropriate for me to create the thread - if you'll be participating then the honour's all yours. :yy:
    Will do one tonight or tomorrow
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    I'm definitely in for 2014. Planning on going the entire year this time (even though I only tugged it myself less than 10 times this year). But no porn is more my goal than no fap so it's not ideal for me to make the thread.
 
 
 
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