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    So far, this has been no fun at all.
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    Had da pornz up 'cos I fancied it but then I thought... what will be the better feeling, a crappy tug or knowing that you have the self-control to stop yourself. Jumped in the shower and now I'm off out to the library.

    Fapping has not broken me yet.
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    Ok im not gonna lie i failed. Blame alexis texas. I wasn't meant to buss. But damn that was one hell of a fap. (exam stress)
    Can i rejoin??
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    (Original post by miser)
    If this is true then I hope to benefit from this specifically. I've always found it an impediment with girls that I did not find them attractive enough. Consequently, though I had some relationship opportunities, I felt no incentive to pursue them. There were of course still girls that I did find attractive, but competition is always tougher and generally I hadn't the social skills to attract them. A shift of a couple points on the scale would tip the balance for me, a welcome improvement.
    Found this quote from a guy who's on a 24 day streak:
    Since I've been on nofap I've been increasingly noticing loads of hot chicks everywhere, on the street, mall, everywhere!! As I'm married, this is putting some serious strain on me because this girls are IRL girls, not just a bunch of pixels.
    And it's amazing how flirty they can get once you just smile at them.
    Today at the supermarket I smiled at a hot girl and she smiled back. I don't know why I did it, would have never done it before nofap. The wife was coming back from the other aisle and saw her smiling at me and gave me the WTF look. I told her she must have taken me for another guy.
    (Original post by a10)
    P.s now back to fapping woooohoo forever alone syndrome rules :party: xD
    We're all trying not to fap, please don't try and big it up in here.

    (Original post by Cryogenic)
    So far, this has been no fun at all.
    It gets easier man, trust me. At midnight tonight I'll have made it one whole month. It started off with a week, then 2, then 3, 4 and a month. Then it's gonna be 2 months, 3, 6, a year. Take things in small steps; if you look too far long term it'll be a lot more difficult.

    (Original post by Dorito)
    Had da pornz up 'cos I fancied it but then I thought... what will be the better feeling, a crappy tug or knowing that you have the self-control to stop yourself. Jumped in the shower and now I'm off out to the library.

    Fapping has not broken me yet.
    Congrats man, great willpower there. Nice to see you starting to show some control. Try not to look at porn at all. You think you can watch a bit without fapping but eventually you end up fapping.

    (Original post by theworld)
    Ok im not gonna lie i failed. Blame alexis texas. I wasn't meant to buss. But damn that was one hell of a fap. (exam stress)
    Can i rejoin??
    There's no-one to blame but yourself. If you shirk the blame, there's no accountability for your actions and it's easy to fap. You're the only one who can decide whether you fap or not. Ditch the porn, it does you no good. You can rejoin but you'll have to message Sov'rgn later so he can change the date.
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    (Original post by RichyFrench)
    Found this quote from a guy who's on a 24 day streak:
    Heh, I'd already read it. Nice info though!
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    (Original post by miser)
    Heh, I'd already read it. Nice info though!
    Ah you're on reddit too aha. So much great motivation on there, and loads of accounts of guys finding real girls more attractive when they ditch porn. Inspired.
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    (Original post by RichyFrench)
    Ah you're on reddit too aha. So much great motivation on there, and loads of accounts of guys finding real girls more attractive when they ditch porn. Inspired.
    Yeah, I really like the badge they have that shows your progress. The day after I started this challenge I posted in the subreddit about the UK contributing another 85 fapstronauts with a link to this thread.
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    (Original post by RichyFrench)
    Yep, porn is fatal to NoFap. Avoiding porn is even more important than fapstinence as it allows you to appreciate real girls instead. When you watch porn, 7/10s become 5/10s, 9/10s become 7/10s, you see the world with porn-tinted glasses, it's a distorted reality. You're definitely welcome to try again, of course. It's personal development, you only fail if you don't get up again after a fall.
    :congrats:

    Excellent, concise and to the point - you hit the nail on the head. This was what I meant to convey in that last post of mine talking about "fapified/pornified lenses", but your post has better clarity. Cheers!
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    How can i join, I have been "Fap-Free" since Mid December when I decided I should control my self.
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    (Original post by Dorito)
    how hard are the mornings (pun intended).

    Couldn't go to the toilet for about half an hour.
    Well, these days the mornings are when I'm at my most horny. However, as I overdone the tugging prior to New Year's, I'm not as hard as I would be - i.e. I'm not fully rebooted yet...

    (Original post by Riku)
    I'd imagine a No Fap February would be pretty tricky considering exams are over, new semester, not to mention Valentine's Day never fails to bring out my foreveralone syndrome :/'
    But I might give that a go.
    Good to hear. No Fap Feb is another popular one and even those who have ridiculed us for No Fap 2013 may be persuaded to take part, so there'll be quite a few others with you as well.
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    Sign me up sir!
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    (Original post by a10)
    Im SORRY GUYS I have failed its not possible when I have so much stress from exams :sad:
    Ah, that's too bad a10. We're sorry to see you leave.

    However, it is interesting that you're excited about being back in the fap zone and the "foreveralone syndrome" - do you not seek a change in life?

    (Original post by KatieMM)
    Got off to a bad start with this. Thoughts of my boyfriend going down and hot soldiers (posh totty officer types) before bed, never a good combination. Please put me down for starting today.
    (Original post by theworld)
    Ok im not gonna lie i failed. Blame alexis texas. I wasn't meant to buss. But damn that was one hell of a fap. (exam stress)
    Can i rejoin??
    Yes, you can both rejoin. However, I wouldn't recommend constant failure. Try to learn from this failure and remain steadfast this time around.

    Good luck.

    (Original post by miser)
    Yeah, I really like the badge they have that shows your progress. The day after I started this challenge I posted in the subreddit about the UK contributing another 85 fapstronauts with a link to this thread.
    Our fame now moves beyond TSR... :moon:



    (Original post by Kutta)
    How can i join, I have been "Fap-Free" since Mid December when I decided I should control my self.
    I'll add you up! Good to have you with us! :congrats:

    Good luck! :yy:
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    I want to join, this is my first day.
    Its been difficult, I keep thinking about fapping.
    Sign me up sir!
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    (Original post by Radant)
    Sign me up sir!
    Glad to have you on board! :congrats:

    Good luck! :top:
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    (Original post by EternalMomentum)
    I want to join, this is my first day.
    Its been difficult, I keep thinking about fapping.
    Sign me up sir!

    Great to have you on board! :congrats:

    Good luck! :top:
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    (Original post by miser)
    Yeah, I really like the badge they have that shows your progress. The day after I started this challenge I posted in the subreddit about the UK contributing another 85 fapstronauts with a link to this thread.
    Oh that was you aha, yeah I saw that and commented on it 'cause TSR is like my home turf..
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    (Original post by RichyFrench)
    Oh that was you aha, yeah I saw that and commented on it 'cause TSR is like my home turf..
    Ah, so that solves the riddle of who it was that said they were also from TSR. :P
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    Who knows Abella Anderson?
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    (Original post by theworld)
    Who knows Abella Anderson?
    Everyone here. I don't think it is productive to be talking of such things.
    I wonder if your intention is to break spirits.
    In that case, I don't think your comment is appreciated.
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    (Original post by KatieMM)
    Got off to a bad start with this. Thoughts of my boyfriend going down and hot soldiers (posh totty officer types) before bed, never a good combination. Please put me down for starting today.
    ARE YOU SERIOUS? You come on here yesterday, sign up, try to get other girls to do the same, then you go to bed and knock one out???????

    Seriously, your thread is right. Guys must be laughing at us.
 
 
 
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