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    I'm having a very bad side effect. It's either one of two extremes: A side effect or deep infatuation.
    I am dying to get more attention from the girl I like. A friend of mine seems to be so popular with her and her friend. I can talk to other girls but today when he was talking to them I couldn't even look at her, because I don't know what to say that will make her smile (like nice things that other guys say). The bad effect is that it's too difficult to concentrate even if I try constantly to study. Then I get even more frustrated because I haven't done much work and the original problem over the girl. I think when I used to fap such emotions were trivialised in my mind to the extent that I could wipe away such defined feelings. Now my imagination runs too wild in any sign that she may be even looking at me.
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    Day 6... Really want a fap. :getmecoat:
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    (Original post by ipoop)
    Right, it's been erm 3-4 days? I'm about to fap, it's a natural thing, get over yourselves.:rolleyes: Name and shame me please!! In fact, make a thread for the sole purpose of naming and shaming. :pierre:
    Poop, you surprise me. :eek:

    But still, well done on trying. :yy:

    But you sound bitter... :curious:

    (Original post by Dinosaurus_Rex)
    Sorry guys I have fapped Its been 6 days for me. 5-10th Jan, which is a record for me. I may be shamed on the forum, but now I feel free from the stress that porn has been in my mind for so long. My original idea of porn-but-no-fap was a terrible one, and I advise you guys not to do that (unless you want to face the consequences).

    I feel much better starting now than starting last time. Lets hope that I can last for 14 days! wish me luck!
    That's too bad. But well done for beating your record. Hopefully you will have learned from this experience. :yy:

    Good luck in your endeavours.

    (Original post by HFerguson)
    welp, don't mean to over-share, but first nocturnal emission this morning

    was having a dream, and in my dream, I imagined having two penises. Then all of a sudden I imagined having three penises, and masturbating all 3 penises simultaneously, and this was too much and tipped me over the edge. lel.

    :ahee:

    WDs are bound to happen to some... :lol:
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    Finally succumbed due to the stress of Uni exams



    May I restart please?
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    (Original post by BefuddledPenguin)
    I'd like to be added to this, It'll be tricky sleeping without it but it's something I need to be able to do.
    Good to have you with us! :congrats:

    Good luck! :yy:

    (Original post by HFerguson)
    I used to know all about lucid dreaming and tried it for a while :laugh: I've only succesfully lucid dreamed once, but I keep a dream journal when my dreams are vivid enough, and that helps with recall. Luckily I've always had relatively vivid dreams.

    I woke up feeling incredibly confused because I couldn't tell whether or not the dream had been lucid and whether I had deliberately dream-masturbated (and if that constituted as failing no-fap). But then I reasond that usually when you're unsure whether it was lucid or not, it's not lucid.

    After the emission, I felt a little guilty, a bit like a failure, confused, but was like "nah **** that ****" and made a few phone calls I needed to make (to complete strangers - and I talked without issue and confidently on the phone with only one stutter )
    It wouldn't be considered a failure, just like a WD would not.

    And you shouldn't feel bad about it - it's a natural occurrence to so much built up energy and 'soldiers' that just haven't been able to get a release from anything else.

    (Original post by Aaron9890)
    Unfortunately the urge was to strong, to the failed list I go (10.1.13). Thanks for letting me into the challenge though, i will definitely learn to control my fapping now to around once every 4 or 5 days. Good luck everybody, hope you all succeed unlike me lol
    That's too bad. But I am glad that you've gotten something out of this challenge (namely, increased awareness of the tugging issue and that you will tug less regularly) - that's arguably better for some people than going through a horrible long period of not tugging and feeling worse for wear.

    We're sorry to see you leave, but nevertheless good luck in your endeavours :yy:

    (Original post by Wilfred Little)
    The winner should get some rep points or some other forum based prize. I know someone will probably lie but who cares.

    And anyone posting sexy women (and men) in this thread should get a ban.
    I can guarantee you that I will make it to then end. I am the Thread Starter and Leader of this movement - I will not fail; really, I cannot fail.


    (Original post by Mazzini)



    There's this really hot guy at school, I have no idea how he doesn't have a girlfriend (yes, he's straight, or so it would seem :sad:) but he's like :sogood:

    :getmecoat:

    Edit: why have I been negged for this?
    That reminds me of school some years ago (all boys) and it was both excellently amazing and a frustrating hell at the same time (i.e. you were surrounded by the fittest boys, but you couldn't really act on it, if you know what I mean..)

    And I certainly didn't neg you - I have no reason to. Strange... :curious:

    (Original post by HFerguson)
    Lost a bit of strength at the gym today after my nocturnal emission this morning

    goddamnit
    No, no. Don't blame the WD. But even so, you'd probably have lost more strength if you'd been tugging incessantly to porn, no? :holmes:

    (Original post by Mazzini)
    Day 6... Really want a fap. :getmecoat:
    Don't. Stay with us. :yy:

    Divert your attention/energy to something else when you get the urge...
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    (Original post by Multitalented me)
    Finally succumbed due to the stress of Uni exams



    May I restart please?
    That's too bad. But ultimately, it's not deemed a total failure unless you don't bother getting back up again and scoffing at us (like a certain user by the name of 'ipoop' :eyeball: )

    When are you restarting?
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    (Original post by Sovr'gnChancellor£)
    That's too bad. But ultimately, it's not deemed a total failure unless you don't bother getting back up again and scoffing at us (like a certain user by the name of 'ipoop' :eyeball: )

    When are you restarting?
    Tomorrow if that's ok
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    I think I just failed an A2 module...motivation needed guys!
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    (Original post by Multitalented me)
    Tomorrow if that's ok
    OK, sure thing. Glad that you'll be getting back on board. :yy:

    (Original post by Blob2491)
    I think I just failed an A2 module...motivation needed guys!
    That's too bad - can you not have it in your mind to do even better on the other modules so as to offset the bad performance in this one? (Although, as they're Jan exams, can you not retake? :curious: )

    What's more, just because you've think you done bad, doesn't necessarily mean you actually get a bad mark. Many at time, I've thought I did really bad in something and then the marks come out and it's superseded any expectation that I previously had. (On the other hand, sometimes people can be very 100% certain that they failed an exam - are you that certain?)
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    (Original post by Sovr'gnChancellor£)
    OK, sure thing. Glad that you'll be getting back on board. :yy:



    That's too bad - can you not have it in your mind to do even better on the other modules so as to offset the bad performance in this one? (Although, as they're Jan exams, can you not retake? :curious: )

    What's more, just because you've think you done bad, doesn't necessarily mean you actually get a bad mark. Many at time, I've thought I did really bad in something and then the marks come out and it's superseded any expectation that I previously had. (On the other hand, sometimes people can be very 100% certain that they failed an exam - are you that certain?)
    Well, I can't really tell with AQA exams, I've either done badly or well...I'll find out in June, I'll probably just resit
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    (Original post by Multitalented me)
    Tomorrow if that's ok
    While ****ing yourself into oblivion in the meantime
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    (Original post by Wilfred Little)
    While wanking yourself into oblivion in the meantime
    Aha well I've got a painful boner atm, need it to go away :dong:
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    (Original post by Sovr'gnChancellor£)
    That reminds me of school some years ago (all boys) and it was both excellently amazing and a frustrating hell at the same time (i.e. you were surrounded by the fittest boys, but you couldn't really act on it, if you know what I mean..)

    And I certainly didn't neg you - I have no reason to. Strange... :curious:
    Yeah. I knew it wasn't you because it was -3.

    Don't. Stay with us. :yy:

    Divert your attention/energy to something else when you get the urge...
    Failed. :facepalm:

    I shall stick around... This has helped me stop fapping so much but I couldn't go a year without doing so. I think I'll restrict it to once a week. :yep:
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    Can you put me on the list for tomorrow please

    Not going to go for the full year, but I hope I can do more then a week.
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    (Original post by Wilfred Little)
    While wanking yourself into oblivion in the meantime
    :awesome:

    That's generally what tends to happen. One 'makes up for it'. Although, as he's beginning tomorrow, I'd actually seriously advocate he 'tugs himself all out', so that he eventually begins to tire/hate the tugging right before he begins on the 12th :lol:

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    Worked this time around for me - those weeks leading up to New Year's were... :dice::dice::dice::dice::dice::dice::dice::dice::dice:

    Dear goodness, it went clinical... :ahee:


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    (Original post by Blazinq)
    Can you put me on the list for tomorrow please

    Not going to go for the full year, but I hope I can do more then a week.
    Glad to have you with us! Don't set yourself down for a fall already - work through the negativity and you could go very far with it.

    Nevertheless, good luck! :yy:

    (Original post by Mazzini)
    Yeah. I knew it wasn't you because it was -3.



    Failed. :facepalm:

    I shall stick around... This has helped me stop fapping so much but I couldn't go a year without doing so. I think I'll restrict it to once a week. :yep:
    Those with high rep can make your rep go down/up several points? :holmes:

    Ah, Mazzini, you shouldn't have!

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    How was it? Was porn a part of your failure?


    But at least your awareness of tugging should have increased and it's good to see that you're going to try it out. Also, might I interest you in trying again later on (maybe the upcoming No Fap February?)?
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    (Original post by Mazzini)
    Yeah. I knew it wasn't you because it was -3.

    Yeah, someone's just negged that post (my reply to your post that was also negged) and rep's gone down by 4.
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    Maybe a narrow-minded homophobe? :holmes:
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    Day 8 and still no urges as of yet...
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    (Original post by Sovr'gnChancellor£)
    Those with high rep can make your rep go down/up several points? :holmes:

    Ah, Mazzini, you shouldn't have!

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    How was it? Was porn a part of your failure?


    But at least your awareness of tugging should have increased and it's good to see that you're going to try it out. Also, might I interest you in trying again later on (maybe the upcoming No Fap February?)?
    Just seen you've got +/-3 rep power

    Yeah, for each green gem you've got, you can neg/+rep people more, for example I have +/-6 power because I've got 6 green gems.

    Not telling

    Maaaayyybbeee :ninja:
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    (Original post by Mazzini)
    Just seen you've got +/-3 rep power

    Yeah, for each green gem you've got, you can neg/+rep people more, for example I have +/-6 power because I've got 6 green gems.

    Not telling

    Maaaayyybbeee :ninja:
    Oh I see that explains many things.

    And even though I've got 3 rep power, it still wasn't me. :huff:
 
 
 
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