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Lose all my confidence around attractive women. watch

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    So im back into dating after a fairly long relationship, and having a few problems. I am a confident guy, I can make new friends, get numbers, have rewarding dates etc without too much trouble unless the girl is really attractive. This sounds shallow, but its so rare that I actually find someone this beautiful so I'd like to stay my normal happy confident self when that situation comes up! I always seem to recend back into a people pleasing over the top, sappy 'nice guy', I suppose for fear of losing them, which is the result anyway when I get like that! Any advice?

    Unfortunately getting awkward around beautiful people tends to happen to most. Myself included.

    I guess the only thing you can do is keep reminding yourself that they're just another person, same as you...and just try to be yourself.

    I wish there was more I could say to help...but if I did know the answer to this I wouldn't be here, I'd be out chatting up some beautiful girl.
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