Ok, long story short. I have been in a relationship with a foreign woman for just over two years now. She has to leave because her visa is running out. Before anyone says marry her I will point out that we spoke about this but decided against it even though it is going to lead to a some bad days ahead when it gets closer to her leaving. I always thought that if I was put in this position I would end it early to save the both of us from wasting our time and the additional pain to come but I can't do it, I would rather have the next 6-7 months with her than not.
She most likely will be leaving in August after her Birthday and I wanted to start thinking about getting something special for her. So any suggestions?
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- Thread Starter
- 05-01-2013 22:41
- 05-01-2013 22:43
Give her a baby. I think that allows her to stay too.
- 05-01-2013 22:47
Why did you decide against marrying her, but also against breaking up because you don't want to not have her?
Just seems a bit contradictary. Either you love her enough to want a future with her, or just let go.
- 05-01-2013 22:51
Because marriage requires the burden of commitment, as does kids. So much easier to love someone knowing that if things go titsup, you can walk away.
- 05-01-2013 22:54
- 05-01-2013 23:16