(Original post by Sulphur)
Well porn in itself is fine, it's not unhealthy to watch it, and it can certainly be interesting during sexual encounters with a partner
It's more the compulsive desire to watch porn in order to satiate physical needs, to the point that anything else other than porn becomes much more dull and plain. Causing various problems, one of which is lack of stimulus during sexual encounters without porn.
I cannot say I have ever had this, though I have heard it being used as a argument before.
Porn just is exciting and gives some intriguing ideas
It might be late at night you find something interesting
and you send it to your boyfriend and you both have happy time when you cannot see each other.
Or you send it to a friend knowing she'll have a great night being single.
The big difference is when you get with your partner love gets in the mix and that is something porn cannot create. Porn is fun, crazy. But being with a lover is fun and crazy and beautiful and intimate and not porn, more than porn.
I really think there are much better things to do for 2013 because I am so positive about sexual curiosity and I know there is still many girls out there who are not getting the equal sexual freedom to men!
Can we just maybe use more fruitful resources which have good messages, or maybe read some good sexy literature? Give money to good authors who write for sexual freedom (not fifty shades of grey....