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    (Original post by Mourinho<3)
    This never ceases to be an embarrasingly common issue. I mean if all the complaining would change something then fine, but as if turning to TSR on such a continual basis will do anything...

    I still haven't got an answer to my question
    -why not be like the rest of the world and go for girls who find you attractive?This is for the individual complaining about white girls supposedly not going for ethnic minorities.

    If a girl turns you down, find another. If after years all girls turn you down who you find attractive you most likely are; aiming too high, physically unattractive (overweight, too skinny for example), personality wise somewhat flawed, all of the above.

    But no matter how many times he's told about oriental guy/white girl couples, he still does this:

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    (Original post by The_Blade)
    I don't see a lot of chinese guys with white girls. Not sure if because white girls think they're generally ugly or?

    Would you go out with a chinese guy and what are you views on them in terms of appearance and personality? Do you know any chinese guys? what are they like?

    edit: not saying I like white females only just wanting to know what white girls think of us.

    @CaalvinYau
    Hey, I'm a white girl and my boyfriend is Chinese. He's really a lovely guy in general. But he does get a bit too self conscious and over thinks things. He sometimes shuts me off when he's having a problem and that's a bit annoying, but in the end he always comes around. I noticed that most Asian guys I know just don't talk about the things that bother them and don't let anyone help.


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    (Original post by Rainingshame)
    I decided not to argue but simply be amused at his posts...sounds horrible but I swear at one point in the summer he had 2 or 3 threads about it in the span of 2 days!
    I hope that he sees my point though;

    When girls/boys rejected you look yourself in the mirror-for appearance (literally) and personality and ask;why should they want me? A girl will have hundreds of guys a year be nice to her, and vice versa for guys most likely.

    If you're in bad shape, get to a gym. Loads of guys and girls do. If your personality is flawed somewhere, try to improve it. This is not an alien concept for so many (including me). It takes effort but thats life. But don't DO NOT EVER, play the race card when it isn't justified! It just makes ethnic minorities look bad and sadly in this case so many may be judged in the future due to one guy.
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    (Original post by Mourinho<3)
    I still haven't got an answer to my question-why not be like the rest of the world and go for girls who find you attractive?This is for the individual complaining about white girls supposedly not going for ethnic minorities.
    Because the girls who I find attractive are white.

    (Original post by Rainingshame)
    I decided not to argue but simply be amused at his posts...sounds horrible but I swear at one point in the summer he had 2 or 3 threads about it in the span of 2 days!
    I have actually never made thread about it.
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    (Original post by Mr Smurf)
    Because the girls who I find attractive are white.
    We are going round in circles here. Well if NO white girls find you attractive then improve your looks and personality. Simple. Gym and socialise like everyone else. But don't post "white girls don't like oriental guys" because they do:rolleyes:
    What you have posted before (the quote above) is an outrageous lie to cover up your flaws most likely...
    But don't blame
    what is responsible, oh no:rolleyes:

    Just out of curiosity; to all you white guys, when you get rejected by a white girl how many of you claim racism?What excuse would you use when you don't want to say it is YOUR fault if you are not succesful with women?

    Guys get rejected, deal with it like an adult jeez.
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    (Original post by Mourinho<3)
    What you have posted before (the quote above) is an outrageous lie to cover up your flaws most likely...
    But don't blame
    what is responsible, oh no:rolleyes:
    So I have been lying about liking white girls all this time and its to cover up my flaws. :rolleyes: You should be a psychologist.

    But seriously, you can tell me to improve myself and all that but dont ever tell me what type of girls I do or dont like.
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    (Original post by Mr Smurf)
    So I have been lying about liking white girls all this time and its to cover up my flaws. :rolleyes: You should be a psychologist.

    But seriously, you can tell me to improve myself and all that but dont ever tell me what type of girls I do or dont like.
    No fool. You have been saying they don't like you due to your race. When in reality it is much more likely your physical appearance and/or personality. These are things that many, many try to change. Other oriental guys have girlfriends. But lets look for the easy way out that makes the WOMEN to blame. Not my fault no. The WOMEN. WHO I WILL STILL PURSUE.

    I can tell you what I like-it is the truth! Don't like it just whine. But when you do I will also post so that people don't ridicule ethnic minorities as insecure or delusional about their own flaws.
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    (Original post by The_Blade)
    I don't see a lot of chinese guys with white girls. Not sure if because white girls think they're generally ugly or?

    Would you go out with a chinese guy and what are you views on them in terms of appearance and personality? Do you know any chinese guys? what are they like?

    edit: not saying I like white females only just wanting to know what white girls think of us.

    @CaalvinYau
    Nope - absolute nonsense. If anything, I'd say from observation and experience that on the whole white girls, after liking white boys, would tend to like chinese guys more than say, black guys or indian guys or whatnot. The general look of chinese guys seems to satisfy the Western notion of beauty than say, a black guy for example.
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    (Original post by Mourinho<3)
    I can tell you what I like-it is the truth! Don't like it just whine. But when you do I will also post so that people don't ridicule ethnic minorities as insecure or delusional about their own flaws.
    So you know what type of girls I like better than I do? :rofl2:
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    LOOOL, you posted a pic of yourself for that.
    Some girls like me, some don't regardless of race, it's the same for every other person.
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    (Original post by Sovr'gnChancellor£)
    Nope - absolute nonsense. If anything, I'd say from observation and experience that on the whole white girls, after liking white boys, would tend to like chinese guys more than say, black guys or indian guys or whatnot. The general look of chinese guys seems to satisfy the Western notion of beauty than say, a black guy for example.
    It depends tbh. I'd say that's right though. Most guys who get good looking white girls e.g. are attractive, got good features and are very good at socializing. I can say the same for every other race.
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    which one of your FB friends did you nick that avatar photo from?
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    (Original post by Mourinho<3)
    What do you have to say about the sheer number of posts you have made concerning white girls?-17 pages for that matter! 17 PAGES! For me such vast amounts posted on the topic suggests a rather unhealty obsession...

    The above bothers me because people will see them and think that other Indian/Chinese people are like this when the 99% are not. People do sterotype sometimes and I don't want that to be the case here. I don't want to feel, as would normal ethnic minority members, like we are being judged to have an obsession just because one person does. So by reading this hopefully I have achieved that a little.
    Mate 80% of the time its other girls mentioning him and white girls when he is not there.
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    (Original post by Mr Smurf)
    So you know what type of girls I like better than I do? :rofl2:
    No-one is telling you what girls you like:confused:. Like whoever you like. I do. I'm the one laughing when they reject you and you feel sorry for yourself. "White girls don't like me". Well they like other oriental guys just saying.

    Lets just say I had this problem; "All the universities I like don't accept me. I think its because I'm Indian".

    A reasonable person would say no, plenty of Indians get in there fine. Your probably lacking in your grades/personal statement etc. So go improve them. I would then do
    A) Do what most people do and actually make an effort to get what I want or
    B) Whinge about the unfairness and claim that its my ethnicity when its not. And make other ethnic minorities embarassed and ashamed at my self-pity but I will wallow in it. As long as I can say it is THEIR fault for rejecting me, since it isn't mine.:rolleyes:
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    (Original post by sissoko46)
    Mate 80% of the time its other girls mentioning him and white girls when he is not there.
    No-that little statistic is if you only search HIS posts. The ones HE has made. My issue with him still remains-what that is I hope is clear by now!
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    (Original post by Mourinho<3)
    No-one is telling you what girls you like:confused:. Like whoever you like. I do. I'm the one laughing when they reject you and you feel sorry for yourself. "White girls don't like me". Well they like other oriental guys just saying.

    Lets just say I had this problem; "All the universities I like don't accept me. I think its because I'm Indian".

    A reasonable person would say no, plenty of Indians get in there fine. Your probably lacking in your grades/personal statement etc. So go improve them. I would then do
    A) Do what most people do and actually make an effort to get what I want or
    B) Whinge about the unfairness and claim that its my ethnicity when its not. And make other ethnic minorities embarassed and ashamed at my self-pity but I will wallow in it. As long as I can say it is THEIR fault for rejecting me, since it isn't mine.:rolleyes:
    Except I have never seen a white girl with an Oriental boyfriend in real life and I am from London.
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    (Original post by Mr Smurf)
    Except I have never seen a white girl with an Oriental boyfriend in real life and I am from London.
    Well other oriental people have managed it. Plenty of ethnic minorities have. But feel sorry for yourself and blame others for what are most likely your shortcomings. What I have said above is pretty true really in your case.

    I have hopefully put my point of view across which was that 99% of ethnic minorities are not as ridiculous as you. Now that I have said that I really don't mind if you want to lie to yourself about why girls don't like you. This thread has had everything that can be said on the matter posted now anyway, ignore it if you want, your life my lolz when you make another post like this in the future. You will never accept your wrong with your looking at everyone and everything else to blame attitude-take my uni example-but can't accept it.
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    Why the hell are there so many threads like this? I am chinese guy and i feel ashamed of this. No point even posting this question. White girls simply do not fancy asian guys the way they fancy white guys. Just like i find chinese/korean girls considerably more attractive. Part of genetics, part of where u grew up!!
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    (Original post by Arirang)
    I'm a white girl and my boyfriend is a Chinese guy from China. We live together and our cultural differences don't affect our relationship whatsoever, there's actually very few. He's 6ft tall and most of his friends are a similar height. Through him I know a whole bunch of Chinese guys who are perfectly nice, funny guys, and they're from both China and BBC's. The guys from China don't really have the laddish-ness that local white guys do, which I much prefer. I know less BBC's, but the ones I do know are kinda laddish, but saying that, they're all good guys. I can't really comment on what I think of Chinese guys personalities because everyone is different, just like in every race, and in terms of appearance it's the same again, some guys are very hot and others aren't.

    In terms of white girls with Chinese guys, I've seen it more often now, and I'm actually surprised that, with all the half-Chinese kids around here who are my age, it's always their mum who is white and their dad is Chinese, which is pretty cool because I imagine back then when they got married, having an interracial relationship must've been a bit harder if society's attitudes were a lot less tolerant.

    What does BBC stand for in this context?
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    (Original post by Mr Smurf)
    So you see Oriental girls with white guys because they are predominantly white countries. But you dont see Oriental guys with white girls because we are ethnic minorities? :lolwut:
    whoops, i misread your last comment, my bad
 
 
 
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