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    (Original post by Mourinho<3)
    Well other oriental people have managed it. Plenty of ethnic minorities have. But feel sorry for yourself and blame others for what are most likely your shortcomings. What I have said above is pretty true really in your case.

    I have hopefully put my point of view across which was that 99% of ethnic minorities are not as ridiculous as you. Now that I have said that I really don't mind if you want to lie to yourself about why girls don't like you. This thread has had everything that can be said on the matter posted now anyway, ignore it if you want, your life my lolz when you make another post like this in the future. You will never accept your wrong with your looking at everyone and everything else to blame attitude-take my uni example-but can't accept it.
    Like who? Yes other ethnic minorities have, but not Oriental guys. I guarantee I knew more Oriental people than you while growing up. Not one of the guys dated a white girl. But quite a few of the girls dated a white guy.

    Your uni example does not take physical attraction into account. No one is going to date someone they are not physically attracted to even if they have a very good personality.
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    (Original post by Mr Smurf)
    Like who? Yes other ethnic minorities have, but not Oriental guys. I guarantee I knew more Oriental people than you while growing up. Not one of the guys dated a white girl. But quite a few of the girls dated a white guy.

    Your uni example does not take physical attraction into account. No one is going to date someone they are not physically attracted to even if they have a very good personality.
    Other people have seen Oriental guys with white girls. I have. Others in this thread have. Those guys would, if they had a flaw, most likely go to gym/socialise/do something to correct it.

    Not hope that moaning about white girls on TSR, yet still pursuing them, would somehow get them a girlfriend.

    You are free to like who you want, but you seem to have an obsession with white girls and only them. So why shouldn't white girls only have an obsession with white guys? Or whatever race they choose?
    If you want to have a massive fetish and only look at white girls don't then say "white girls don't like oriental guys".

    And as I said above, I have seen Chinese guys with Chinese girls as others on this thread have said. No loser, self-pitying, delusional about their own flaws guys of any race though. Harsh but true.
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    (Original post by Mourinho<3)
    You are free to like who you want, but you seem to have an obsession with white girls and only them. So why shouldn't white girls only have an obsession with white guys? Or whatever race they choose?
    If you want to have a massive fetish and only look at white girls don't then say "white girls don't like oriental guys".

    And as I said above, I have seen Chinese guys with Chinese girls as others on this thread have said. No loser, self-pitying, delusional about their own flaws guys of any race though. Harsh but true.
    Like I said before, there is nothing wrong with peoples preferences. They are free to like who they want. That does not mean I cant feel sad about it.

    Obviously you see Oriental guys with Oriental girls or we would be extinct in this country. I didn't say we cant get girls of our own race. :rolleyes:
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    (Original post by Mr Smurf)
    Like I said before, there is nothing wrong with peoples preferences. They are free to like who they want. That does not mean I cant feel sad about it.

    Obviously you see Oriental guys with Oriental girls or we would be extinct in this country. I didn't say we cant get girls of our own race. :rolleyes:
    I meant Chinese guys with white girls. Oh you make me laugh Mr Smurf. Don't say my excercise-phobia and social inadequacy, as well as a refusual to change my flaws, are the reasons girls don't like me. Claim its my race though others of the same background get by fine.:cool:
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    Race is obviously a contributing factor but its not the deciding one. Yes it effects the views but so does looks, body etc. If a white girl can choose between a normal oriental or a white they are most likely to choose the white. If she can choose between a nice looking, good personality (etc) oriental or a normal white then I think they would prefer the oriental of course. Don't want to sound harsh but I probably will: those orientals saying white girls don't like orientals maybe it's because of 'other' reasons??


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    (Original post by Vaser)
    Race is obviously a contributing factor but its not the deciding one. Yes it effects the views but so does looks, body etc. If a white girl can choose between a normal oriental or a white they are most likely to choose the white. If she can choose between a nice looking, good personality (etc) oriental or a normal white then I think they would prefer the oriental of course. Don't want to sound harsh but I probably will: those orientals saying white girls don't like orientals maybe it's because of 'other' reasons??
    If a white girl prefers white guys fine. Just move on and find another who isn't like that. I mean if you can't find a single white girl to end your obsession (no names in particular spring to mind), ONE, SINGLE, WHITE GIRL IN YEARS, the problem is obviously you. And not just a little bit either. Work out and be a better person like everyone else with sense aspires to.

    In my opinion even though people are free to like who they want, if you exclusively chase white girls and even ignore other races including your own, I don't feel sorry for you if you. Don't be so shallow as to fix race as your most important quality to look for! Of course preferences are natural, but obsessive lusting is just a little strange.

    Preferences are fine. Obsessive chasing not so much. Yes you are free to have your massive obsession but I am also free to criticise it as well. As I am free to criticise individuals who embarass ethnic minorities with their self-pitying whining.
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    Actually, I'm a white girl, and I've fancied chinese guys in much the same way I've fancied white guys and guys of other races. I don't know if I'm the minority, but from my experience and judging by my friends', we are attracted to chinese guys as well.
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    (Original post by Mourinho<3)
    If a white girl prefers white guys fine. Just move on and find another who isn't like that. I mean if you can't find a single white girl to end your obsession (no names in particular spring to mind), ONE, SINGLE, WHITE GIRL IN YEARS, the problem is obviously you. And not just a little bit either. Work out and be a better person like everyone else with sense aspires to.

    In my opinion even though people are free to like who they want, if you exclusively chase white girls and even ignore other races including your own, I don't feel sorry for you if you. Don't be so shallow as to fix race as your most important quality to look for! Of course preferences are natural, but obsessive lusting is just a little strange.

    Preferences are fine. Obsessive chasing not so much. Yes you are free to have your massive obsession but I am also free to criticise it as well. As I am free to criticise individuals who embarass ethnic minorities with their self-pitying whining.
    couldn't agree more with you, special one
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    (Original post by maddyt08)
    Actually, I'm a white girl, and I've fancied chinese guys in much the same way I've fancied white guys and guys of other races. I don't know if I'm the minority, but from my experience and judging by my friends', we are attracted to chinese guys as well.
    Just another example to be noted for those who believe that ethnicity is the be all and end all for relationships. And by believe I mean use it as a pityful, very transparent way of hiding their own flaws that I have stated above.
 
 
 
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