How to stop stalking someone?! Watch
OK this is definitely going to make me seem like an oddball but oh well.
I've fancied this guy for the past few months and seem to be turning into a complete stalker. I don't literally follow him around or send him creepy notes, but I'm constantly checking his facebook for updates, looking through his photos (the other day I looked through almost 300 snaps he uploaded from his new years) It's even got ot the point where he posted his address for a party and I google mapped his house.
I know what I'm doing is incredibly creepy and wrong, but how do I stop? I don't want to unfriend him as it's harsh because he's on my course...
But just check out a few photos, get the general jist of what he's up to and leave it from there.
Check less and less often, and less and less each time, and just ween yourself off or to at least a healthier level.
It's certainly a very unhealthy relationship that you have with this person though, so I would suggest removing yourself from his company as best you can - including deleting him from Facebook if you can't stop yourself from spending all of your time checking him out :P. I wouldn't call it stalking, but I think if he knew you were doing it he probably would.
It might seem a bit heavy-handed, but I imagine you'll be happier in the end since I doubt this doing your self-esteem any favours.
Maybe try and actually talk to him and engage with him rather than having to look at his profile everyday
story of my life, i stalk his twitter account!
Lol iv done the same thing. I dont call it ' stalking' ...its more like doing back ground research...to see what type of person he is. Ermm looking at 300 pics is okay. But iv never gone that far in checking where the person lives o.O. It would be freaky if you saved all his pictures on your desktop and made a collage for your phone screen O: haha you should do that!