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I'm 17 at the moment and have had 3 serious relationships so far, but the current one at the moment I have never loved anyone as much. But I will be going to university in September while she finishes her A Levels. What I'm basically asking is there much point in me continuing the relationship considering all my uni choices are a long distance away? I can end up suffering from paranoia about her cheating :/
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Might as well give it a go. Break it off if it gets too stressful, keep it going if it doesn't.
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I think the best person you should be talking to this about is her. Share your concerns and make a sensible decision, I don't think there is a need to break up just because you're going far away.. LDR's can work. Maybe she can visit you over the weekend sometimes and vice versa. There's skype and all these other apps you can use to keep in touch.

Or maybe you'll move away and find hot girls and you'll be the one to cheat and maybe she's paranoid about the same thing.. y'know.. not to turn so morbid or anything but just exploring all possible conclusions here..
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This absolutely depends on the relationship, I've seen it go either way, if you and your partner are willing to put in the extra effort that long distance relationships take, it can work.
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(Original post by Confusing_Chem)
I think the best person you should be talking to this about is her. Share your concerns and make a sensible decision, I don't think there is a need to break up just because you're going far away.. LDR's can work. Maybe she can visit you over the weekend sometimes and vice versa. There's skype and all these other apps you can use to keep in touch.

Or maybe you'll move away and find hot girls and you'll be the one to cheat and maybe she's paranoid about the same thing.. y'know.. not to turn so morbid or anything but just exploring all possible conclusions here..
Totally agree with this

(Original post by Anonymous)
I'm 17 at the moment and have had 3 serious relationships so far, but the current one at the moment I have never loved anyone as much. But I will be going to university in September while she finishes her A Levels. What I'm basically asking is there much point in me continuing the relationship considering all my uni choices are a long distance away? I can end up suffering from paranoia about her cheating :/
To the OP communication with your girlfriend is very important, long distances are doable but it takes effort, it takes a lot of honesty as well. If you do feel it is not gonna work then I would break it off now.
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I'd say give it a go and if it doesn't work out because you become too paranoid, then break up.
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