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I've been sitting next to this guy in class for around a year now, and since then we've gotten really close and we now text quite a lot and talk all the time.

The thing is, I started to really *like* the guy last spring. I assumed it was just a little crush that would pass but it hasn't and I still feel the same way. He told me late sep/early oct that he likes another girl (and the trouble is, she's absolutely lovely so I'm not even allowed to hate/envy her!), which was a slightly upsetting reality check. Since then I've been helping him through his shyness and encouraging him to get her number, I want to be a good friend and I don't want to ruin anything...

He's really sporty, tall, funny very clever and really lovely.
I'm about ordinary. Slim, blonde, really short. That's about it.
I'm punching WAY above my weight.

So these feelings have been pretty pent up for a while and I want to tell him so I can just have done with it and not have this huge secret which I try not to show. However, I'm pretty sure this'd ruin our friendship and make everything awkward, although I'm sure he'd be as kind as he could. I really don't want to lose him as a friend.
But of course I suppose I can't have it both ways?

I just don't know what to do! Any advice would be great.


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turn your texting to sexting!
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turn your texting to sexting!
No way Jose! He's not that kinda guy, for sure, he'd just laugh at me! Thanks for the advice though
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No way Jose! He's not that kinda guy, for sure, he'd just laugh at me! Thanks for the advice though
Ok so genuinely, he sounds like a nice guy so just drop a couple of hints and see if you get anything back, one of these two will happen,

1. he will drop hints back, you both get together.
2. hes not interested, but if he ever says anything you can just say "nah i wasn't hinting, you got it all wrong"
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Ok so genuinely, he sounds like a nice guy so just drop a couple of hints and see if you get anything back, one of these two will happen,

1. he will drop hints back, you both get together.
2. hes not interested, but if he ever says anything you can just say "nah i wasn't hinting, you got it all wrong"

Sounds so easy! I'll give that a go, cheers.
I get a bit paranoid about how much I text him when he doesn't reply (fairly rare) so I might just leave it a few days since that happened yesterday...humour me and my logic!
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Sounds so easy! I'll give that a go, cheers.
I get a bit paranoid about how much I text him when he doesn't reply (fairly rare) so I might just leave it a few days since that happened yesterday...humour me and my logic!
If he texts back then obviously he don't mind
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