Screwed up my relationship due to my problems, I want him back! Watch
I'd been trying my best to control myself and let him have lots of freedom but all of last night he just ignored me and wouldn't say anything yet said it wasn't my fault but I figured it was something to do with me so sent him an xbox message saying we should go on a break for a week, he didn't even listen to the message and his mate found out (a mate who has never wanted us together) and told him so he messaged me on xbox saying it's over because he was sick of the stress of arguments etc, but he always says because of his a.d.d he can never talk cos he struggles with that, but I also struggled with that. How were we meant to sort things out if he never spoke to me? He just said it's over like that no explanation really or anything just kicking me from parties on xbox. We'd been together 7 months and both had our problems but he said we'd get through anything together. This story probably sounds so stupid from another persons point of view but I want to sort it but can't because he's just ignoring me, I'm being made to feel like the bad person here. How can I sort this mess? It feels like we've split up over something so stupid and I didn't expect this from him since he's 20. Despite the differences I love him.
...We'd been together 7 months and both had our problems but he said we'd get through anything together.
My opinion is that he doesn't seem to want to be with you anymore and to be honest you're only 16, you should really move on. You've yet to experience many things and you've yet to meet many people if I'm honest. Don't blame yourself, you're not really being a bad person. Like I said... you should just try your hardest to move on :/