Girl from POF keeps anoying me with sexual talk...what do I do? Watch

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I joined POF to peruse around and fill my time for when I'm bored. This girl messages me and seemed interesting and asked me to chat to her on kik and then coerced me into giving her my number and now keeps texting / whatsapping.
I have a bf and keep telling her but one day I was bored and we exchanged half naked pics and since then she's all 'please baby be my gf'....'please say you love me'...'please talk to me I'm crying'...she messages me 24/7 and I usually ignore but couple of nights ago she goes 'I'm really sad, my parents died and friends and family want to kill me'....
I really don't know what to believe, we have never talked to on the phone so tbh I dont even know her true identity but if she really is as depressed as she claims...i feel bad for ignoring her and feel guilty for bluntly saying 'stop being stupid, how can I love u if we've never even met'....
should I just ignore her? Shes sorr of frustrating me.
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Give me her contact details, I want a piece of that.


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Serves you right for window shopping.
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Ignore her please. And I think you're a bit silly for exchanging nude pictures with her in the first place.
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Just totally block and ignore. Why were you on there anyway when you have a boyfriend?
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I feel your pain. I gave a girl fantastic text sex and now she won't leave me alone. You bishes are only after one thing :<
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Just seems like an attention seeker... But why the hell would you send him/her/it half naked pictures of yourself because you're bored?
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(Original post by anti-duck)
Just seems like an attention seeker... But why the hell would you send him/her/it half naked pictures of yourself because you're bored?
I know I wasn't thinking...she'd sent me loads and pushed me to 'atleast send a couple'...

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(Original post by Alana6277)
I know I wasn't thinking...she'd sent me loads and pushed me to 'atleast send a couple'...

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Personally I would de-activate my POF profile if there is an option, but if you don't want to do that then just ignore any messages from this person and hope your pictures don't end up somewhere else... This person doesn't seem genuine atall.
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Are you bisexual then? Otherwise it's a little random to send half naked pics to a girl...
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(Original post by anti-duck)
Personally I would de-activate my POF profile if there is an option, but if you don't want to do that then just ignore any messages from this person and hope your pictures don't end up somewhere else... This person doesn't seem genuine atall.
Yes i've deleted my POF account. She keeps massaging me on kik and whatsapp...i could block her but she emotionally blackmails me with how depressed she is I wouldn't mind a nice civilised conversation but she always diverts it to sexual things.

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(Original post by Aderyn)
Are you bisexual then? Otherwise it's a little random to send half naked pics to a girl...
Yes.

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It's likely she isn't a girl. Girls usually are not as sexual/pursuing as that. They don't need to be.

There are plenty of men online going around pretending to be girls to not scare their targets off/because they're into lesbian stuff.

Edit: oh and emotional blackmail is also common. The depression/everything else is likely all lies.
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Most likely a middle aged man
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I don't have a lot of sympathy to be honest. You shouldn't be joining dating websites if you are not single, you are just leading people on. Delete your account and go back to your boyfriend. What it signals is that perhaps their are cracks in your relationship. Use your free time to go on games websites, or sporcle or something, don't go on dating websites.
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How would your partner feel about you exchanging half naked pictures with someone? Just because she's female doesn't suddenly make it ok, unless of course he has said he's ok with that ****...
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Huh. That's not what I do when I'm bored...

Try playing on an xbox next time. Much less likely to end up with an emotionally-blackmailing lunatic who can now put half naked pictures of you on the internet.

Block her on everything.
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(Original post by Dragonfly07)
It's likely she isn't a girl. Girls usually are not as sexual/pursuing as that. They don't need to be.

There are plenty of men online going around pretending to be girls to not scare their targets off/because they're into lesbian stuff.

Edit: oh and emotional blackmail is also common. The depression/everything else is likely all lies.
Yeah I sometimes think so too as she tends to keep asking about 'acts I do with my bf'...


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Hey guys! Have you ever been so bored you decided to exchange half nude photos with a stranger?
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(Original post by Dragonfly07)
It's likely she isn't a girl. Girls usually are not as sexual/pursuing as that. They don't need to be.

There are plenty of men online going around pretending to be girls to not scare their targets off/because they're into lesbian stuff.

Edit: oh and emotional blackmail is also common. The depression/everything else is likely all lies.
But the OP said the only reason why she sent naked pics to the girl was because she sent loads to the OP first. Unless the pics are fake..
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