Scared girl will see me as fat Watch

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I'm a 17 year old guy and I started working out in around November, and I lost a lot of weight (including lots of belly fat) but around Christmas time and up until now I've started to gain some of that weight in my belly region again and it bulges out a bit in that area. The reason I stopped was that I just didn't feel happy, I got a rejection from Oxford, my parents divorced, so I just didn't care what I ate, sat in front of my PC a lot, just did nothing but work, etc. and as a result the rest of me is fairly slim, but I just have a bit of fat on my belly.

There's this girl I've been talking to over the phone quite a bit and I'm pretty sure she likes me, and we're meeting up in a few days. The problem is, when she first saw me I looked a little bit fitter and had quite a flat stomach! Now though I think my pecs are starting to get flabby and so is my stomach. What do I do? I don't want to turn her off of me.
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Mourinho<3
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I'm assuming you haven't gained absolutely huge amounts weight but if she is that shallow to be put off you then she isn't worth having.

I mean if you have put on 4 stone say then that is a lot tbh, but if its only a little bit then what I said above. Over Christmas a lot of people gain weight don't worry!
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1. I wouldn't have thought it could get much different within a month
2. You probably won't be examining each other's bellies on the date
3. If it gets to the point where clothes are coming off you're through the rabbit hole by then, she won't notice
4. Women, by and large, don't care about looks, it's confidence they're into, you are at risk of jeopardising your confidence by obsessing over looks
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I've put on a few kilos...
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Any more advice? I want to impress her
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She won't care how you look if she's worth having, and if you're super charming and confident and sweet.
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