Scared girl will see me as fat Watch
There's this girl I've been talking to over the phone quite a bit and I'm pretty sure she likes me, and we're meeting up in a few days. The problem is, when she first saw me I looked a little bit fitter and had quite a flat stomach! Now though I think my pecs are starting to get flabby and so is my stomach. What do I do? I don't want to turn her off of me.
I mean if you have put on 4 stone say then that is a lot tbh, but if its only a little bit then what I said above. Over Christmas a lot of people gain weight don't worry!
2. You probably won't be examining each other's bellies on the date
3. If it gets to the point where clothes are coming off you're through the rabbit hole by then, she won't notice
4. Women, by and large, don't care about looks, it's confidence they're into, you are at risk of jeopardising your confidence by obsessing over looks