How much is a boyfriend supposed to care when your down? Watch
I feel like he doesn't care about my feelings. I expect him to be the first person I turn to if I'm feeling down, because he's my boyfriend. I hate it whenever he's down and I'd go out of my way to cheer him up, and it hurts he wouldn't do the same. I just started uni and I don't have any friends close enough to confide my problems in, so if he doesn't care, I don't have anyone.
Am I being unreasonable or is he? My emotions are all over the place today and I need another's perspective on my situation before I blow things out of proportion without knowing. Aren't I in the right here though?
Next time you ring him, tell him you're upset and that you REALLY want to go there for a cuddle because it'll make you feel better (rather than "can I come over for a cuddle" without mentioning the reason). That way there's no way he wouldn't get the message, and if he says no then you have reason to worry.
I am sure he cares for you (although if he doesn't show any care or respect for you then that's a different issue). I also don't have any friends close enough to confide in, so I rely on him too, but I've realised that we shouldn't be dependant upon one person, rather have control of your own feelings and understand that relationships friends and even regretfully family are not always there for you.
Edit: I also agree with the above posts!