Leaving University - never had a relationship Watch

Davif
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Basically, I'm 23 and have spent four years at university and I haven't managed to have a long-term relationship with a girl.

I assumed university would be full of fairly like minded people and that meeting people would be easy. Unfortunately I have found myself in a very close circle of friends plus I have struggled with my workload so balancing work and a social life has been difficult.

It is so depressing that I haven't managed to bond with anyone. Instead, I'm just obsessional about certain girls - largely due to looks less due to personality. I've spent so much time working to supposedly get myself a better career/life that I've completed missed out on what is really important.

All this is knocking my confidence and making me desperate which is precisely the wrong place to be.
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lack of confidence and being desperate isn't a good thing to be! also, you must find that balance between study and socialising - It will benefit you so much! how else will you meet people if you are stuck with a book on your lap all the time?

Have you not met anyone you like? If you have simply go for it!!! Don't just wait for the "right person" to come along you sound like you need to get out there more
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Don't worry, there is still life after university...
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(Original post by Daniel George)
you must find that balance between study and socialising - It will benefit you so much! how else will you meet people if you are stuck with a book on your lap all the time?
It's not that simple, especially if you are doing an engineering degree.
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