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So me and my girlfriend broke up yesterday. Neither of us wanted to and we still want to be together but we've had so many ups and downs it kind of got too much. We were best friends for 2 years before getting together and were together for a year and a half. I want to text her and see if she's ok but I'm not sure if I should..?
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Your a lesbian? :rolleyes:
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Your a lesbian? :rolleyes:
What, lesbians can't have relationships?
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If you were best friends then maybe it is worth just asking if she's ok, I'm sure there's no harm in that. After all, you could try to be just friends?
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No, text me instead.

Or give me her number.
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Your a lesbian? :rolleyes:
Bi, but that doesn't really answer my question does it?
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If you were best friends then maybe it is worth just asking if she's ok, I'm sure there's no harm in that. After all, you could try to be just friends?
Yeah, I don't want to lose her friendship at all, above all, we're best friends. I just don't know whether it's too soon..
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You never know, maybe she's thinking the exact same thing? If you feel it's too soon then it probably is, maybe wait a day? If you do really want to talk then do it, I can't see how it'll make things worse
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You never know, maybe she's thinking the exact same thing? If you feel it's too soon then it probably is, maybe wait a day? If you do really want to talk then do it, I can't see how it'll make things worse
Thank you
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You're very welcome, hope it goes well
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dont. just let it be for some 2-3 months, let yourselves calm down a little, get over it...
then make a contact
i mean you could send her a short text but try not to engage in a conversation it will only feel worse afterwards
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(Original post by MusicGirl92)
So me and my girlfriend broke up yesterday. Neither of us wanted to and we still want to be together but we've had so many ups and downs it kind of got too much. We were best friends for 2 years before getting together and were together for a year and a half. I want to text her and see if she's ok but I'm not sure if I should..?
Yeah, why not?

To be honest, 2 months is too much. I don't see anything wrong with checking to see if she's okay in the next couple of days.
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