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    (Original post by Gimp)
    well if he wanted to do stuff you didn't, and especially if he tried to force it, he's definitely not a very nice guy! listening to a bit of chopin every now and again doesn't make you a gentleman
    Well no, but he is doing a music degree so I (naively) thought that he couldn't be that bad.
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    (Original post by Eeyore)
    Well no, but he is doing a music degree so I (naively) thought that he couldn't be that bad.
    yes very naive,never take what a bloke says at face value and never take what a girl says at face value. Trust your instincts (ok that came over a bit Jedi knight but you should) as they are important. Dont feel down about him trying to use you, think that you have identifid it and stoped it. Neway at least be glad that he wasnt a charmer who talked his way into ur pants.
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    (Original post by JSM)
    yes very naive,never take what a bloke says at face value and never take what a girl says at face value. Trust your instincts (ok that came over a bit Jedi knight but you should) as they are important. Dont feel down about him trying to use you, think that you have identifid it and stoped it. Neway at least be glad that he wasnt a charmer who talked his way into ur pants.
    Yes, indeed, I completely agree. This guy was my first boyfriend, and I haven't had one since, although there was another guy who I wasn't even going out with who tried to use me *majorly*... I think I've been put off guys for life
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    (Original post by Eeyore)
    ... I think I've been put off guys for life
    I always say that and then...
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    just steer clear of musicians they cant be trusted
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    (Original post by waiting2smile)
    I always say that and then...
    ... you meet that special someone with whom you would like to ...
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    (Original post by Gimp)
    just steer clear of musicians they cant be trusted
    But I'm a musician, and all the people I get on best with are musicians too!! For the most part, they're the kind of people I feel on a wavelength with!
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    (Original post by Gimp)
    just steer clear of musicians they cant be trusted
    Some of my best friends are musicians
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    (Original post by Gimp)
    just steer clear of musicians they cant be trusted
    HEHE - PUT YOUR FOOT IN IT THERE
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    (Original post by Kurdt Morello)
    ... you meet that special someone with whom you would like to ...
    ... spend time chatting with and ...
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    (Original post by Eeyore)
    But I'm a musician, and all the people I get on best with are musicians too!! For the most part, they're the kind of people I feel on a wavelength with!
    cripes girl... just because you had a bad apple doesn't mean the rest are going to be like it. You weren't wrong to go for someone who had similar interests as you - he just happened to be a ****. You'll meet someone else who can play the flute with his toes when standing on his head and he'll knock your socks off... x
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    well im one too kinda so im allowed to discredit them :P
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    (Original post by Gimp)
    well im one too kinda so im allowed to discredit them :P
    i play the guitar ... so there
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    (Original post by Kurdt Morello)
    i play the guitar ... so there
    i play the spoons and the kazoo
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    (Original post by Gimp)
    i play the spoons and the kazoo
    que?
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    (Original post by Kurdt Morello)
    que?
    you haven't lived
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    (Original post by Gimp)
    i play the spoons and the kazoo
    master the triangle and you'll have a one-man-band.
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    (Original post by Gimp)
    you haven't lived
    obviously i havent
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    well seriously i play the piano, and a little guitar. and im a notorious womaniser. (this isn't true)
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    (Original post by Gimp)
    well seriously i play the piano, and a little guitar. and im a notorious womaniser. (this isn't true)
 
 
 
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