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Girls; if you found out a guy was fantasising over your photos...

would you feel disgusted, flattered, offended, horny or violated?

I'm pretty sure most guys would be flattered if they found out a girl was fantasizing over their photos, so I was wondering whether this would be the same the other way around.

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Knowing someone is attracted to you is an ego boost, but things like finding out a guy you're not in a relationship with has your photo saved and is jerking off to it is just creepy. Some people just go too far.

Terms & Conditions: Please note that the above is subject to change depending on the level of attractiveness of the guy.
Reply 2
As long as it wasn't some secret photo they snapped of me getting out of the shower, why would I mind? :tongue: Their business, not mine.
Reply 3
Original post by hollywoodbudgie
Knowing someone is attracted to you is an ego boost, but things like finding out a guy you're not in a relationship with has your photo saved and is jerking off to it is just creepy. Some people just go too far.

Terms & Conditions: Please note that the above is subject to change depending on the level of attractiveness of the guy.


If he's managed to obtain a photo worth ****ing over, fair play.
Reply 4
Original post by hollywoodbudgie
Knowing someone is attracted to you is an ego boost, but things like finding out a guy you're not in a relationship with has your photo saved and is jerking off to it is just creepy. Some people just go too far.

Terms & Conditions: Please note that the above is subject to change depending on the level of attractiveness of the guy.


lol atleast you're being honest.

OP are you referring to that reddit story? I felt so bad for the guy tbh. She shouldn't have humiliated him like that.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/02/12/reddit-porn-doppelbangher_n_2671855.html
I like this guy and im always on his facebook looking at his pics lol
Reply 6
If I liked the guy and I were single I'd be flattered. If not...I'd be a lil creeped out. But not too much.


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Reply 7
Original post by pinkangelgirl
I like this guy and im always on his facebook looking at his pics lol


Ive done that in the past to, never masterbated over them though.

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I'd find it very flattering. In fact, just the other day, a certain person who I had been having liaisons with (who shall remain unnamed) had informed me of the dubious act and I found it most complementary :colone:
Original post by gemmam
Ive done that in the past to, never masterbated over them though.

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nah, dont go that far lol.
Well as a girl I can say that I've fantasized over fit guys whilst looking at their pictures. I guess I might feel slightly disturbed if it was someone I didn't think of that way, but I wouldn't be really bothered. However if I liked the guy or even if I just though he was hot then I'd just be amazed that he'd acknowledged my existance!
They love it.
Reply 12
It's completely fair. We all know guys go online looking for photos of hot girls, whether it'd be porn sites, celebrity gossip sites or girls on facebook. If you're an attractive girl, there is always going to be some guy fantasizing about having sex with you. Whether he fantasizes while looking at a photo or just imagining something in his mind, is really not that different. Of course some girls will be "grossed out" if the guy in question is someone they already find a bit creepy or is uninterested in. Unfortunately, that is often the case. If he was a confident, self-assured guy, he would have asked her out instead. But if a girl makes herself attractive to men, she will make herself attractive to ALL men, not just the ones she's interested in.

What's creepy is guys giving sexually charged comments to facebook photos or talking about girls in a condescending way with their mates. If you really obsess over someone and go through all their pictures, keep it to yourself. I had a guy who was following me on instagram and liking all my photos on facebook. He never spoke to me in real life. I have my instagram and facebook separate but he had this thing where everything he liked on instagram was shared to his facebook profile. As he liked everything, all my instagram photos were spread over the newsfeed when I logged in. You can't delete an instagram follower, so I just had to block him.
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Reply 13
Original post by pinkangelgirl
nah, dont go that far lol.


Saying that I do think back at some of the guys I fancied and cringe about spending ages looking at their pics.

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Original post by gemmam
Saying that I do think back at some of the guys I fancied and cringe about spending ages looking at their pics.

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haha yeh i know what u mean :tongue:
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A mix of flattered and weirded out/a bit offended I guess. Depends on if I like the guy/if he's fit :lol: and also whether he searched out the photo/saved it etc. It's way more creepy to stalk someone's Facebook for **** material :indiff: than to be a horny opportunist.
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Let's be honest, 95% of males have ****ed over pictures/thoughts of their females friends.

Fact.
Original post by hollywoodbudgie
Knowing someone is attracted to you is an ego boost, but things like finding out a guy you're not in a relationship with has your photo saved and is jerking off to it is just creepy. Some people just go too far.

Terms & Conditions: Please note that the above is subject to change depending on the level of attractiveness of the guy.


To be fair I'm a guy and I'd find it a bit weird if a girl had one of my Facebook photos saved. Most of them are terribly bad photos, for starters, and if someone's going to be ****ing over my photos I at least want them having a tasteful one.
Flattered, and a little weirded out (not an option, but ohwells :tongue:)
Revenge **** :rofl:

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