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Oral sex...pubic hair....

This is well embarrassing, hence the anonymity, but here we go....

I'm a girl, but oral sex is a bit of an issue. I've never had it done to me, but I think it's going to happen soon. However, I'm paranoid about "down there." Not that it smells or anything, but the pubic hair! I have it not just on the triangular area, but actually in between my legs, where the divide is. Is this normal? And surely any guy going down there would end up with a mouthful of pubes?!
Should I shave it off or what?

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shave it off...makes it much nicer for them iv been told.
I'm not 'au fait' with female anatomy, to put it quite mildly, but it's probably normal - pubic hair grows to different extents on different people. Maybe you should ask the guy in question (presumably you're not offering yourself out to the public and asking for statistics here) whether he prefers it shaved or not? It's not really for us to decide how your boyfriend likes his cunnilingus. :smile:
Ouch, will be very uncomfortable and itchy as it grows back, though.
Its up to you! you sound completely normal!!
If someones going to do it to you.. you should be comfortable enough to ask them what they feel about it! But dont ever do anything you dont want to do!! Have fun!!
Reply 5
I think you answered your own question. Unless the guy that's planning to do it to you likes a "mouthful of pubes", it's gotta go!

regards
--marty
Reply 6
Most likely natural. If he's going to go down there he has to accept the risk of needing a toothpick afterwards.
Reply 7
Anonymous
This is well embarrassing, hence the anonymity, but here we go....

I'm a girl, but oral sex is a bit of an issue. I've never had it done to me, but I think it's going to happen soon. However, I'm paranoid about "down there." Not that it smells or anything, but the pubic hair! I have it not just on the triangular area, but actually in between my legs, where the divide is. Is this normal? And surely any guy going down there would end up with a mouthful of pubes?!
Should I shave it off or what?



Get that **** waxed - no man wants to be coughing up hair balls after sex.
Reply 8
Troy :0)
Get that **** waxed - no man wants to be coughing up hair balls after sex.


Ive got this fantastic mental image rolling around in my head now...
:biggrin:
gr men are such twits sometimes.. as a girl i would find it wierd being bald.. thats what little girls are like.. if its what you like fair enough, but dont let a guy force you into it
Getting rid of most of it is easier than it looks. Not necessarily 'shave it all off' but trimming it will help lots.
You sooo shouldn't do the waxing thing.

Pubic hair is needed for friction during sex...tis a scientific fact:rolleyes:
yeah i would find it creepy.. trimming is fine but completely bald seems just wrong to me! i could see how it could have its benefits BUT too wierd! lol
plus itchy growing back ouchy lol
Reply 13
Trim it?
Don't make the same mistake I did and get a rash from shaving it too much. I am currently having to pretend it's 'that time of the month' so that my new boyfriend doesn't go down there. :redface:
You could trim it real short or shave it every day then use copious amounts of moisturiser. Or wax....y-ouch! I thi nk it looks better...I can't contribute to the oral sex part of the talk myself (shame!) but personally it looks really good. If you like skimpy, lacy topshop stylee pants etc then it just looks better off!
Reply 16
Anonymous
Don't make the same mistake I did and get a rash from shaving it too much. I am currently having to pretend it's 'that time of the month' so that my new boyfriend doesn't go down there. :redface:


what happens when your actual period comes, eh? :p:
Experiment with shaving and tirmming if you want to, then you know what works for you and how you like it before it comes to anyone else going down there. I found once I tried it there was no turning back cause I personally prefer it off myself.
for curiosity... do girls also think like that about men? should WE shave down there???
Reply 19
No. DOn't shave.
1) nicks on the old scrotum (niiiice)
2) shaving rash on the face is bad enough

If it's a forest... down there... trim :smile: