Confused about losing my virginity

I don't have any feelings for her in a relationship sort of way. She is just a friend who I get along well with, she's funny and she's attractive.

I've been thinking it through and read what everyone has said and I think I'm going to go for it. As someone said, you don't get opportunities like this everyday and I'm seeing it as a chance to lose it in a safe environment with someone I can trust rather than some random girl I've picked up on a night out.

Several people have said about waiting for a relationship but I can't see that happening whilst at uni and, with another 4 years left to go here, I'll be mid 20's before I could start to look properly and as someone else said, it starts to weigh on your mind a lot.

Thank you everyone for your input though, now all I've got to do is pluck up the courage to send a message and get over the nerves

I would do it. Ftr I'm a girl. Unluckily, no-one's offering

What I'm saying is that sex is best done within a relationship.

Hi all

Basically a few weeks ago I was at a club, was horrendously drunk and was chatting to a girl a few years ahead of me on my course (She's a friend but not a close one). It turns out I told her I was a virgin and had never even kissed a girl before and she then promised me that she would sleep with me if I wanted to. I thought she would have forgotten all this due to her being quite drunk as well but she remembered it all. Last night we were out again and ended up kissing several times briefly before telling me that she would keep her promise if I wanted to but she said that she wanted me sober. She told me to just send her a message when I wanted to and that was it for the night. She does have a reputation for sleeping with quite a few guys but the way she is treating this makes it seem like she wants it to be something good for me and not just a shag for her, I don't know.

I originally wanted to lose my virginity in a relationship but university circumstances mean that this is awkward and I'm considering just saying screw-it, and not making a big deal out of losing it but am getting confused. One friend is saying to just go for it, the other isn't keen and thinks I can do better. Any thoughts?