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    Ok so I met a guy on a dating site 5 weeks ago, we talk all day every single day via text i hate calls so we dont call much, we've met every weekend and watched been to the movies and spent time together after... at first it was just a hug, then he started putting his hand on my leg and few kisses, so after him telling me he wasn't going to use me and didn't just want sex I decided to let him sleep at mine.. we slept in the same bed and he was in boxers I had a long top and underwear on, he wanted to have sex and kept touching my boobs bum leg and lots of making out, he was hard before we slept but kept his boxers on as I didn't want sex, he kept calling me a tease..the next morning we were making out again he put my hand on his **** then asked me to sit on him he was trying to touch me intimately and wanted sex but I didn't let him as I didn't want to be used, he then told me 1 days later he only wants to be friends?!?!?!?!
    He was constantly telling me he really liked me, now he's told me he doesn't want a relationship so I just said let's leave it and he put ' but I like you' now we're back to talking like we used to.. what's going on? Any help?
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    Anyone ??
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    Can anyone help
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    This is a difficult one, you made it clear that you didnt want sex, and the next day he said he doesn't want a relationship? Seems a bit odd that you find a guy on a dating site yet he doesn't want a relationship. Maybe the initial 'no sex' thing put him off, now he has actually realised that his 'primal urge' took over and he does actually want something now. Jeez and I thought Women were complicated
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    Friends don't sleep in the same bed and make out all night. See how it goes and hopefully his intentions will become clearer
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    She didn't **** me so I ****ed off.

    Harsh, vulgar truth.
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    If he is the right person he will stick around. Glad you did not let him use you
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    He wanted to have sex and you didn't so he's going to find a girl that does. Its that simple.
 
 
 
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