I would self-identify as "funny looking", certainly not attractive. And what I put forth in this debate is that attractive people make me uncomfortable, and I'd rather not date them. I feel much more comfortable in a relationship, or flirting shamelessly, with a person of more homely appearance. I don't even think I'd accept the advances of a pretty person, and certainly not if they are of the same mindset as those of you here thinking yourselves "attractive"; like I'd accept some pity-f*kk from a guy who thinks my rack makes up for my unfortunate face - no thank you! If a person is to be judged by their appearance, then uglies have just as much right to exclude pretties for the same reasons: that they just don't fit the part.
Why do people do it?