Think I've somehow found porn of one of my good friends

I realise that this may sound like a joke, but I assure you it's not. So I was looking through pictures on an amateur porn website and I come across a picture of a topless girl giving oral taken from the perspective of the guy. I nearly skimmed past it but I realised there was something not quite right about it: the girl in the picture looked really familiar. The picture doesn't show her whole face, in fact you can only really see a bit of the left side of her face, and her arm and shoulder, but what I can see looks uncannily like one of my very good friends. Seriously, her face shape, nose, hair, eyebrows, arms, everything I can see that isn't in shadow or blocked looks EXACTLY like her.

On the one hand I'm thinking, "what are the chances that out of all the porn in the world I would come across someone I know," but on the other I'm thinking that it looks so much like her I'm honestly convinced that it could be. I feel so awkward but I don't really know what to do about it. I can't exactly just go and confront her about it, especially if it just turns out to be some random girl who happens to look similar, but if in some bizarre coincidence it does turn out to be her then I've seen something she wouldn't want me to see, and I'd feel terrible keeping that from her, especially if she doesn't know that the picture's out there on the internet. Any thoughts? Am I just jumping to conclusions?

Do you want this young lady to know that you look at filth ?

Do you want this young lady to know that you look at filth ?

Remember that our brain tends to fill in blanks that we can't see. So if the picture doesn't show her full face, your brain might just be imaging what you believe to be your friend. Since you can't see her face properly, I would just forget about it. I wouldn't confront her as you can't be 100% sure and it will be a very weird conversation.

hahahaha, that's a bit awkward


Bring it up when you're drunk together? I guess it depends how good a friends you are... Assuming it is her, if she doesn't know about it, I don't think you can really do much to get it off the internet. I remember reading a thread about someone who found photos of themselves and had no luck with getting them off the sites. If you don't think she's the kind of girl to have put the photo there herself then it might be kinder just to leave it and not cause her the stress of bringing it up, what's the chances of someone else she knows seeing it, really? Even if she did put it up there, might also be kinder not to bring it up to save her the embarrassment of knowing someone she knows seeing it.

Only thing is that if it wasn't her who put it up, then the guy who put it up is a dick. She might wanna be warned in case there's a next time, I know I would feel really violated. Loads of things to think about here...

take a picture at the same angle the next time you see her and compare it with the picture on the amateur website. easyyyyyyyyyyyyy

Given that I've been in the position where I've been blackmailed with a video (filmed w/o my knowledge) of me giving a guy oral going online, I'd definitely want a friend to bring it up if they thought they saw it! :| So if it is her, I'm sure she'd be grateful you've mentioned it.

Yeah I understand, and that's one of the reasons why I'd want to tell her, but the thing is, I'm still not 100% sure it's her. It would be awkward enough for me to bring it up in the first place, so imagine what would happen if I brought it up and it wasn't her, that could be really damaging! I wouldn't really know how to mention it either, I've thought about it and the best thing I can think of so far is asking, "Is there any chance a guy might have taken pictures of you when you were with him without you knowing?" But still, that's not particularly subtle!