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    Just something I've noticed on this board. There's always more advice for boys on how to get girls than there is for the other way round.

    Why is this ... :confused: I'm a girl and I'm hopeless at attracting boys. It's EASY for a boy to get a girl, it's just that boys are so shallow/have a superior sense of worth that they go for girls that are out of their league. If boys went for the quiet, shy girls who don't get any attention - well, things would be so much easier all round, wouldn't it?

    Just saying. Girls need just as much advice on these things.
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    You think it's difficult for a girl to get a man?

    Just open your legs and there you are. The problems for girls start after they've done that.
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    You could say exactly the same the other way around. It's easy for girls to get a guy if they go for the quiet, shy guys you don't get any attention.
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    That's it.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Just something I've noticed on this board. There's always more advice for boys on how to get girls than there is for the other way round.

    Why is this ... :confused: I'm a girl and I'm hopeless at attracting boys. It's EASY for a boy to get a girl, it's just that boys are so shallow/have a superior sense of worth that they go for girls that are out of their league. If boys went for the quiet, shy girls who don't get any attention - well, things would be so much easier all round, wouldn't it?

    Just saying. Girls need just as much advice on these things.
    Yeah... no.

    Maybe your generalisations are putting people off.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Just something I've noticed on this board. There's always more advice for boys on how to get girls than there is for the other way round.

    Why is this ... :confused: I'm a girl and I'm hopeless at attracting boys. It's EASY for a boy to get a girl, it's just that boys are so shallow/have a superior sense of worth that they go for girls that are out of their league. If boys went for the quiet, shy girls who don't get any attention - well, things would be so much easier all round, wouldn't it?

    Just saying. Girls need just as much advice on these things.



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    What problem do you have, exactly?
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    How most girls get guys: Turn up

    How most guys get girls: Enter with swag, dance a jig, chirpse, show her the guns.. you get the drift; girls just need to look nice and smile sweetly, job done
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    Really? I'd say girls have a much easier time attracting guys. I mean, we have breasts.


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    (Original post by eliza.anne)
    Really? I'd say girls have a much easier time attracting guys. I mean, we have breasts.


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    (Original post by eliza.anne)
    Really? I'd say girls have a much easier time attracting guys. I mean, we have breasts.


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    Close thread, nail on head right here.
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    Girls generally have it easier, that's why. Guys who come on here giving advice, are the guys who used to be useless with girls, but finally took the time to learn and are now having success. Guys who are naturally good with girls have absolutely no idea how to give advice, but they just do what comes naturally. It's like trying to teach English if it's your first language. You can never explain why something is, because that's just how you've learnt it and accepted it to be.

    Girls who are good with guys have usually always been that way. Girls rarely have to learn how to interact with guys because they've just had enough practice that it becomes second nature. If you have no idea what you're doing, it's probably due to a lack of practice. If you don't socialise much then it'll take longer for you to improve your skills.

    If you actually want some help and advice, it might be an idea to de-anon, and actually ask for help rather than vent your frustration that guys are more willing to help their fellow lads be better at interacting with girls, and that girls aren't sharing their wisdom. Loads of people will be willing to help if you just ask.
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    (Original post by Regent)
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    Hahaha. Just a bit :rolleyes: Nah, I meant in our power to attract is all.
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    It's much easier for girls to get guys, and girls are the more picky ones not the guys. You've got it all wrong.
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    I like shy girls, they don't like me though! Lol

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Just something I've noticed on this board. There's always more advice for boys on how to get girls than there is for the other way round.

    Why is this ... :confused: I'm a girl and I'm hopeless at attracting boys. It's EASY for a boy to get a girl, it's just that boys are so shallow/have a superior sense of worth that they go for girls that are out of their league. If boys went for the quiet, shy girls who don't get any attention - well, things would be so much easier all round, wouldn't it?

    Just saying. Girls need just as much advice on these things.
    Erm, I'd say it's easier for girls to get guys than the other way around, and I'll tell you we're not all shallow.

    I actually prefer the plainer, more genuine girl, who's really nice inside (and somewhat attractive), than someone caked up in make up, showing off her cleavage etc....

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    They kinda do
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    how about going for the quiet and shy guys to see how it feels!
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    You think it's easier for a BOY to get a GIRL??

    All you have to think about is the amount of times girls complain about "guys only wanting sex".

    Whereas guys never have that complaint, cause IT NEVER HAPPENS TO THEM!

    Easiest way for a girl to attract guys = wear make up and a skimpy dress
    Easiest way for a guy to attract girls = get rich and famous

    Now which sounds easiest?

    Also there's this common myth that guys are more shallow when that couldn't be any more further from the truth. A lot of guys would sleep with literally anything. But the same couldn't be said for girls, when it comes to having sex, they are way more picky, and they can afford to be! When guys are constantly approaching of course they're gonna weed out the best guy. I would too if tons of different girls kept approaching me. But of course that doesn't happen, so I take what I can get, like most guys.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Just something I've noticed on this board. There's always more advice for boys on how to get girls than there is for the other way round.

    Why is this ... :confused: I'm a girl and I'm hopeless at attracting boys. It's EASY for a boy to get a girl, it's just that boys are so shallow/have a superior sense of worth that they go for girls that are out of their league. If boys went for the quiet, shy girls who don't get any attention - well, things would be so much easier all round, wouldn't it?

    Just saying. Girls need just as much advice on these things.
    Generally it's boys who make the first move, so generally it's going to be boys wanting and asking for advice. Further, since most people who make the first move are boys doing it from a boy's perspective, more advice is available to boys.

    As for going out of their league, how well do you think a relationship is going to go if the boy has 'settled' for someone, always having in their mind that someone else would have been better? And then if the girl finds out he's got these regrets.
 
 
 
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