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    So before I begin I know it could be worse and that there are people with much worse situations than me but I simply don't know what to do anymore. I'm in year 11 and finally have an opportunity to my school to go to a sixth form/college. However for the past 5 years I have been verbally abused about my religion (Judaism) and being labelled as that weird kid because I keep to myself. Don't get me wrong I have tried to socialise and make friends but it is always ends up in fire and anguish. I really don't want to tell anyone at school because I know no one is trust worthy from past experience. I had a girlfriend for about a week and after that was over and felt even more alone. Recently today, some kid wanted to look at my chemistry coursework after refusing he said this is way people treat you differently and the whole class started laughing. I hate going to school but can't say at home because my parents would have to find out and they have too much on their plate with bills and such things. I know people will say this is just a part of life and too get over it. I know there will always be bullies in life but right now I don't know especially if I don't get into the sixth form I want. Any advice?
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    When you get to 6th form with new people there make new friends there (or try to). In the meantime, try not to stand out too much.. I had a tough time at school too but im not sure what to advise. Good luck.
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    (Original post by AnInsaneMuffin)
    So before I begin I know it could be worse and that there are people with much worse situations than me but I simply don't know what to do anymore. I'm in year 11 and finally have an opportunity to my school to go to a sixth form/college. However for the past 5 years I have been verbally abused about my religion (Judaism) and being labelled as that weird kid because I keep to myself. Don't get me wrong I have tried to socialise and make friends but it is always ends up in fire and anguish. I really don't want to tell anyone at school because I know no one is trust worthy from past experience. I had a girlfriend for about a week and after that was over and felt even more alone. Recently today, some kid wanted to look at my chemistry coursework after refusing he said this is way people treat you differently and the whole class started laughing. I hate going to school but can't say at home because my parents would have to find out and they have too much on their plate with bills and such things. I know people will say this is just a part of life and too get over it. I know there will always be bullies in life but right now I don't know especially if I don't get into the sixth form I want. Any advice?



    Seriously mate? thats very upsetting well you could try and make the people that bullly you feel very bad they myt stop that way? like you could go on a huge row at all of them and for once and for all get all your feelings out maybe then they would realise how you feel and if there muslims then say to them " Its forbidden to hurt another humans feeling and do you know how much you have done that to me?" and trust me if they follow there religion even one bit they WILL stop.

    Goodluck and dont worry
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    1. concentrate on your studies
    2. leave the school and find a better one as soon as you can
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    (Original post by AnInsaneMuffin)
    So before I begin I know it could be worse and that there are people with much worse situations than me but I simply don't know what to do anymore. I'm in year 11 and finally have an opportunity to my school to go to a sixth form/college. However for the past 5 years I have been verbally abused about my religion (Judaism) and being labelled as that weird kid because I keep to myself. Don't get me wrong I have tried to socialise and make friends but it is always ends up in fire and anguish. I really don't want to tell anyone at school because I know no one is trust worthy from past experience. I had a girlfriend for about a week and after that was over and felt even more alone. Recently today, some kid wanted to look at my chemistry coursework after refusing he said this is way people treat you differently and the whole class started laughing. I hate going to school but can't say at home because my parents would have to find out and they have too much on their plate with bills and such things. I know people will say this is just a part of life and too get over it. I know there will always be bullies in life but right now I don't know especially if I don't get into the sixth form I want. Any advice?
    you are judaism and you're parent is having trouble with bills?


    i am joke.

    no in being honest, i am thinking you should not worrying because is not you're fault. and also is not a big deal because is only for people who is either being extreme political ideology, or is young people who is being not mature. when you are reaching age in life when you are being in people who are mature, you will looking back and realising how young you all really were being. this is something is only happening in child and anti-semite and some political ideology. it will seeming like big issue for you now because of course, you are being around people in this stage of age.

    when i was being in nursery people picking on other because of they're toys they liking. when i going to first stage school people realising how child this is and started picking on other because of they're television they liking, instead. when i reaching second stage school people realising how child this is and started picking on other because of they're parent jobs, instead. when i reaching pre-university people realising how child this is and they started picking on people social skill and popular, instead. when i reaching university people realising how child this is and they have starting pick on other over how well they are doing in degree compare to themself, instead.

    i am not knowing after this but i am thinking next is going to being salary, and after that is going to be wisdom, and then after that is going to be how young looking compare to age, and after that is going to be who is getting good expensive grave (these are only guessing because i am not being there)


    so i thinking you should not worrying. dont changing any of you initial plan because you are being scared of what people saying. this is meaning you allow other person to shaping you're life. is this something you wanting?
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    Uhh, this sounds so horrible. :-(

    Firstly, you sound like a genuinely nice person, caring so much about not burdening your parent
    Hmm, so no adults at your school are remotely trustworthy or helpful, have you tried to seek guidance online or calling some help centers?
    I have some experience with isolation myself, the best is as someone else stated to keep a low profile, not standout religion-wise too much, focus a lot on studying and getting to the good school, and maybe if not in your class then in some other class you could find someone more neutral (maybe someone who's also isolated and in need of an ally)?

    Also, try to talk to your parents about it in a calm manner, not exaggerating it or being all emotional, thus triggering a strong response, but maybe letting them know that you're having emotional trouble and would like more support at home (to make up for the crap you get at school)
 
 
 
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