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try taking him to the side beofre anyone gets drunk, and talk to him, or phone him. try and get in contact with him and just talk, even if it is over the phone, then atleast by talking to him he might see that you have changed. sometimes talking is the only solution, remember patience is a virtue.
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I hear what your saying but how am i going to know if i don't give ti another go and to be fair we hardly gave it a fair chance before because I was so messed up
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I'm not hassling him, but how do i show him that I'm not a freak, I mean if I do nothing surely I'll never get him back?
You're not a freak right? So just be yourself. He will see the real you, who he obviously likes. I've been in a similar situation, you have to be really patient with him - it's really hard! As long as you make it clear that you want to be with him things will be fine. Maybe write him a short note saying that you're sorry for everything that happened in the past, that now is the right time for you to be together, before obviously wasn't, and that you would really like it if you could try again. This way he can take the letter and read it when you're not around...he'll get the message eventually. Hang in there... (I think he wants the same, but he's a bit scared to admit it because of what happened last time)
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I hear what your saying but how am i going to know if i don't give ti another go and to be fair we hardly gave it a fair chance before because I was so messed up
like i said, talk first, make your move later. give him a bit of time to get used to the new you and see that you're for real. guys can get intimidated very easily.
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I really hope your right
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orange orange: u know if u want something then u gotto sacrifice other things in order to get it...as economists call it "the opportunaty cost"...sometimes u have to do risky things in order to achieve something.
By the sound of it i think ur being too conservative and tryin to play it really safe...
I still say contacting him and telling him dirrectly is the most logical method to apporach this.
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just try it, it's worth a shot. what do you have to lose?
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orange orange: u know if u want something then u gotto sacrifice other things in order to get it...as economists call it "the opportunaty cost"...sometimes u have to do risky things in order to achieve something.
By the sound of it i think ur being too conservative and tryin to play it really safe...
I still say contacting him and telling him dirrectly is the most logical method to apporach this.
here here
by the way you spelt opportunity wrong. you been at the spliff again?
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yeah but i've been working at the frienship thing for ages, if i come out with the i want you back stuff and i've read the signs wrong i could be left with nothing. I really care about this guy - I don't wanna screw things up!
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I really hope your right
Have confidence! Good luck with it... If he can't see how great you really are he's not worth it!
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here here
by the way you spelt opportunity wrong. you been at the spliff again?
lol
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look, be yourself, take as much time as you want. it's hard to mend old relationships, but its like amb1 said, if he cant see how great you are then he really doesnt deserve you.
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lol
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im everywhere
heh yes maybe the last time i tried it wasn't 10 days ago after all...
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heh yes maybe the last time i tried it wasn't 10 days ago after all...
thought so...
so whos eye is it? yours or some next mans?
whoevers it is, very nice
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thought so...
so whos eye is it? yours or some next mans?
whoevers it is, very nice
Its a pic of my mates eye "next mans"...(which i have taken )

Edit: Thankx btw
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Its a pic of my mates eye "next mans"...(which i have taken )

Edit: Thankx btw
very nice, and very well taken. so you like photography? hmmm.....
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very nice, and very well taken. so you like photography? hmmm.....
Do you like my eye too?
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Do you like my eye too?
it's lovely!!! is it yours? i wish mine was like that. i'll put mine up sometime, as soon as i can find someone who can take nice photos
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it's lovely!!! is it yours? i wish mine was like that. i'll put mine up sometime, as soon as i can find someone who can take nice photos
Yes, it's my real eye. Do you think I should lay-off the eyeliner a bit?
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