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    This is not including porn.
    I'm getting married soon through traditional marriage and know my to be husband and all but am worried about the physical intimacy.

    So when was the first time you saw someone naked...of the opposite sex and how did you react..what were you thinking etc etc?
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    I suggest you have sex before marriage, rather than going into marriage as, effectively, noobs.


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    Something along the lines of 'awesomeee'
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    (Original post by Hypocrism)
    I suggest you have sex before marriage, rather than going into marriage as, effectively, noobs.


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    +1. That's a big reason why sex before marriage exists. I don't understand how you can enter a long-term, intimate commitment without checking to see whether you can both handle real, physical intimacy.

    Freedom of choice and whatnot, and I do hope it all goes well, but there's no magical way to predict how you're going to react. It could be much ado about nothing, or you could both freak out massively.

    Edit: Gee, contentious issue then.
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    It was quite ****ing fantastic to be honest. Something I'd hoped to see for a few years , so was delighted my time had finally come lol.
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    I was thinking 'Look at her face, stop staring at her body you're going to come off as creepy.'

    Actually that applies to when I see a girl with clothes on too...
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    Was turned on. Thought it was mysterious.
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    I was just thinking "OMG I'm actually going to finally have sex!!!".
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    I got scared... Honestly.

    I'm fine with it now though


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    Did the nervous giggle and couldn't stop.

    Bit off putting I guess :s
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    I'm guessing you mean in a sexual context.

    The first time in general I'm assuming I though
    "Mum, let me suck on those tits"

    The first time I saw a naked women sexually I though
    "Let me suck on those tits"
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    'LOL'

    I have always been pretty immature though!
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    In the leisure centre women's...oldish woman, i was like jesus put some clothes on, ergh
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    (Original post by JollyGreenAtheist)
    +1. That's a big reason why sex before marriage exists. I don't understand how you can enter a long-term, intimate commitment without checking to see whether you can both handle real, physical intimacy.

    Freedom of choice and whatnot, and I do hope it all goes well, but there's no magical way to predict how you're going to react. It could be much ado about nothing, or you could both freak out massively.
    So many religious idiots giving you thumbs down. I've got your back lol.
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    (Original post by abhiksetia)
    It was quite ****ing fantastic to be honest. Something I'd hoped to see for a few years , so was delighted my time had finally come lol.
    Is that an intended play-on-words?
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    I really don't know what I was thinking, I kind of just went with the moment. It was positive thoughts though, definitely not negative.

    If you don't mind me asking, how well do you know him? Is it just expected that you won't have sex before marriage? or have you discussed this together and agreed it? All that could affect how things go. If you're already very emotionally close then I expect it will be better, trust and all.
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    'Put your clothes back on mum'

    As for the first woman I slept with (also my mum?) 'Oh look real fleshy tits, she's just standing there without clothes on, do people do that? need to see your pussy but you have fat muff in the way, are all women like this?'
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    My family have always been very open with nudity, so I guess I grew up not making such a big deal out of it. Living in the Netherlands, there's a big culture of beach nudity so I sort of came to be pretty comfortable with nudity and the idea of being naked around others, so for me it wasn't such a big deal the first time I was intimately naked with someone. What worried me most was how I myself looked...
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    (Original post by Orthonym)
    I really don't know what I was thinking, I kind of just went with the moment. It was positive thoughts though, definitely not negative.

    If you don't mind me asking, how well do you know him? Is it just expected that you won't have sex before marriage? or have you discussed this together and agreed it? All that could affect how things go. If you're already very emotionally close then I expect it will be better, trust and all.
    Haven't discussed although we are emotionally close and like each other very much. It's not the done thing and I don't want to either and i can sense that he has similar views
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    (Original post by ForensicShoe)
    Is that an intended play-on-words?
    Happy coincidence it seems
 
 
 
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