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    I could tell he liked me from the beginning of the course. He constantly STARES at me, and when I look round to see if he's still staring, he winks at me and it makes me feel really uncomfortable cause he's a bit creepy and I don't even consider him as a friend (not meaning to be mean but it's true)
    He likes a lot of my status' and favourites a lot of my tweets (he found me on twitter somehow, and soundcloud, and other sites i've never advertised..)
    Another thing, he stares at my boobs. Ugh. I think he actually took up smoking to come stand outside with me and the others, cause he didn't smoke at the start of the course.
    I dont want to be mean to him or delete him from facebook or anything but i really do feel uncomfortable with the amount of attention he's giving me. He rarely speaks to me in person. On facebook he's like " :P xx " and i never put x's or any hint of flirting at all back cause i dont want to encourage him, i want to put him off me, but i don't know how to help
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    Just tell him.

    Tell him you're flattered but you just see him as a friend. If it makes you feel that uncomfortable, you'll have to say something since it doesn't seem like he knows the way you feel, even though you aren't reciprocating with messages etc.
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    just break it down to him in a gentle way, hes probably in love with you.

    although to take up smoking just to get to know you does show something specail about him, i wouldnt do that for any girl, thats just pure stupid, but he did do this just to see you more, so why dont you get to know him more, he might turn out to be a great person,
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    Staring at your boobs? Cheesy messages on facebook? Winking? I can't understand how he thinks these things will work...
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    (Original post by Lewk)
    Staring at your boobs? Cheesy messages on facebook? Winking? I can't understand how he thinks these things will work...
    Blame the supposed pick up artists on TSR.

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    Ignore him or be dismissive on Facebook and if he's staring at you just ask him what he wants or aggressively say oi up here
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    Either carry on ignoring him, block on facebook and twitter, or tell him 'i know you like me, but i dont like you and you make me uncomfortable so please stop'. He obviously hasnt got the hint yet and with some guys you just have to be blunt and tell it like it is
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    OP, just stay away from him, however, if he is making you feel uncomfortable or does anything that you weirds you out, tell him straight up. He cant just continue doing that.

    Sounds creepy.
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