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    Anon Please.

    Is there a point within a friendship where you are happy with each other and basically cut contact/talk less? I've been close to a friend of mine since the start of university and It seem's suddenly the contact has stopped. Just whenever text's are sent (Used to talk everyday, all the time) reply's received are hours later stating that they are busy/forgot I had text them.

    It seem's strange to go from talking all the time, to hardly at all. I cant talk to said person about It as I've asked before, twice and they say nothing has changed but obviously something has for there to be a sudden change. You don't suddenly wake up and realise you know everything about each other and there is no reason to talk? I've not said anything out of line to them. Only thing that has changed is that they are talking to there EX more recently. I'm assuming he just fill's the void I did before?
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    Anon Please.

    Is there a point within a friendship where you are happy with each other and basically cut contact/talk less? I've been close to a friend of mine since the start of university and It seem's suddenly the contact has stopped. Just whenever text's are sent (Used to talk everyday, all the time) reply's received are hours later stating that they are busy/forgot I had text them.

    It seem's strange to go from talking all the time, to hardly at all. I cant talk to said person about It as I've asked before, twice and they say nothing has changed but obviously something has for there to be a sudden change. You don't suddenly wake up and realise you know everything about each other and there is no reason to talk? I've not said anything out of line to them. Only thing that has changed is that they are talking to there EX more recently. I'm assuming he just fill's the void I did before?
    Sorry, what gender are you and your friend?
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    Could be something going on that you don't know about. For example, sometimes I will barely speak to my friends, but its because I'm suddenly swamped by work. I think my friends have realised now that I only really get to speak to them on my holidays and weekends!
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    Anon.

    Genders are Male (OP) & Female.

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    But that suddenly doesn't happen does it? you cant go from talking all the time to nothing, why wouldn't they just say that they are super busy? happens on weekends and stuff
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