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    (Original post by Maid Marian)
    Somebody who is:

    -Quiet
    -Shy
    -Nice person
    -Not shallow
    -Very introverted


    I can't find ANY boys like this, do they exist? (Yes, I was inspired by that other thread).

    This would be my dream guy... sigh.
    The only one that people have described me as is "nice person" but I'd say that I also fit in to "not shallow" Otherwise, nah sorry.

    I'm only really quiet and shy around the girl I like (not any one else though ) Somewhere in the middle of introverted and extroverted
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    Yeah, I'm every single one of the things you stated. But, it's mostly because I'm quite short.


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    (Original post by sarah_22_16)
    That is a bit harsh isn't it? You don't know the OP. Are you basing your view on your own personal experiences. Also, I don't get why a girl is such a cow for 'friend zoning' someone, like if she doesn't reciprocate a guys feelings and wants boy mates instead she is 'stuck up'..
    I just find it odd that she can't find such a guy.

    I know plenty.

    And I am not alone. Given that 6+ guys in this thread have responded fitting her criteria.
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    **waves**
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    You can say that person is who you like but damn near guaranteed that the guy gets overlooked by women, even by the 'nice' girls, in favour of an outspoken and confident guy most of the time.

    So yes they exist but they're seeing what women are receptive to in practical terms as opposed to what they say they are receptive to theoretically and changing their ways.
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    Yes, but precisely because they are shy and quiet they probably don't make themselves noticed.
    You will have to search for them.
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    sounds like a ideal person for me too


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    (Original post by fat_hobbit)
    I just find it odd that she can't find such a guy.

    I know plenty.

    And I am not alone. Given that 6+ guys in this thread have responded fitting her criteria.
    I would have thought it was kind of obvious, she says she is shy and wants a shy guy. Shy people generally don't ask people out or flirt, so they'll find it hard to find each other.
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    you have actually just described me.....
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    (Original post by fat_hobbit)
    I just find it odd that she can't find such a guy.

    I know plenty.

    And I am not alone. Given that 6+ guys in this thread have responded fitting her criteria.
    Yes but if they are so reserved then maybe it is not because they have been put in the friend zone but are just too shy too approach. That was my thinking anyway.
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    (Original post by Maid Marian)
    Somebody who is:

    -Quiet
    -Shy
    -Nice person
    -Not shallow
    -Very introverted


    I can't find ANY boys like this, do they exist? (Yes, I was inspired by that other thread).

    This would be my dream guy... sigh.
    But they - I would not be so conceited to include myself in that list because I'm only shy around people I don't know and introverted but not really 'quiet' - generally would not make the first move and be permanently single (like me, on that point).
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    (Original post by Mankytoes)
    I would have thought it was kind of obvious, she says she is shy and wants a shy guy. Shy people generally don't ask people out or flirt, so they'll find it hard to find each other.
    You got it in one
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    We definitely exist :holmes:
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    (Original post by Maid Marian)
    Somebody who is:

    -Quiet
    -Shy
    -Nice person
    -Not shallow
    -Very introverted


    I can't find ANY boys like this, do they exist? (Yes, I was inspired by that other thread).

    This would be my dream guy... sigh.
    Hey I just met you,
    And this is crazy
    But I'm your dream guy
    So PM me maybe
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    (Original post by Maid Marian)
    You got it in one
    Maybe you should be more open to more extroverted guys? I know we might seem shallow, but you often see a different side to someone when you are alone, and different personality types often work well together. Looking for someone similar to yourself is not always the way to go.

    And we would never, ever parody Carly Rae Jepson lyrics to try to impress you.
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    (Original post by Maid Marian)
    Somebody who is:

    -Quiet
    -Shy
    -Nice person
    -Not shallow
    -Very introverted


    I can't find ANY boys like this, do they exist? (Yes, I was inspired by that other thread).

    This would be my dream guy... sigh.
    The existence of such people completely depends on you (Women) and sadly their numbers are in a decline.. :-)
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    (Original post by This Honest)
    Tsr is like the bank for those guys OP.
    lol...
    gits acting big behind their keyboards
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    (Original post by uniphysics)
    Hey I just met you,
    And this is crazy
    But I'm your dream guy
    So PM me maybe
    That just made my day.
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    (Original post by harps.singh)
    lol...
    gits acting big behind their keyboards
    K.
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    Yes, because I am one...
 
 
 
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