Ex's and revenge...

Poll

Should you take revenge on a heartbreaker?

Mostly aimed at the guys,

If you ever had your heart broken by a girl, and she's a bit of a heartbreaker and very very selfish, if you could in some way, take a form of revenge...

Would you do it?

Even if it was really, really bad (but non-violent)?

Reply 1

Mellanie

1

Hmmm, from a girls point of view - I'd hurt the scumbag ten times worse then he hurt me!

REVENGE IS SWEET - and thats the bottom line.

Nobody can deny that!

Reply 2

q1w2e3r4t5y

I wouldn't date a person like that in the first place.

Reply 3

Schmokie Dragon

17

For a lass - if the breakup was malicious (e.g. he cheated, beat you up etc) then an appropriate revenge may be exacted. But if it was a normal breakup and only feelings were hurt then revenge is cruel and unacceptable. No-one is obliged to love and live with anyone else.

Reply 4

bret

12

how can you tell if a girl is hurt or not when you break up with her?

Reply 5

zav

14

Nah no point your game again so forget about her and try and move on

Reply 6

Pandy

10

Where's the "Get over it and move on" option?

Reply 7

Drogue

19

Nope. Even if I wanted to, one of my mum's favourite phrases always sticks with me: "the best revenge is living well". Even when my lovelife is bad, I'm still a scarily lucky person, so I'm happy :smile:

Reply 8

SuperhansFavouriteAlsatian

Tell her you had chlamydia, so she has to go through the embaressing situation of buying a test at a chemist - follow her, take pics, and spread.

Reply 9

contractador

1

only do revenge if its gna b something effective otherwise ull b seen as vindictive and will have had none of the benefits. Bt hey b subtle too. Theres nothing like revenge without them realising.

Reply 10

El Scotto

15

What is it Dennis Rodman said on Celeb bigbro?

"To get revenge you go sleep with someone they know"

i agree. lol

Reply 11

xavier2k3

1

First of all Tanya, you are so beautiful...wow!

Secondly, about the thread, well, personally i'd do nothing and hope karma came back and bit her in the ass, it depends if i was in love with her or not i guess, i'd react differently based on the circumstances!

regards
--marty

Reply 12

username47781

20

I just rose above it when i went out with a girl who was selfish and a heartbreaker she lost out in the end anyway, usually what goes around comes around.

Reply 13

Profesh

20

DanGrover

Tell her you had chlamydia, so she has to go through the embaressing situation of buying a test at a chemist - follow her, take pics, and spread.

This takes on an entirely different significance assuming that you genuinely have Chlamydia.

Reply 14

hummy94

i jst broke up with ths guy. a few days after i took him back i find him lying on the park grass with some slag who used to be my friend..this calls for revenge:P what can i do??

Reply 15

wanderlust.xx

18

ATESalisbury

Mostly aimed at the guys,

If you ever had your heart broken by a girl, and she's a bit of a heartbreaker and very very selfish, if you could in some way, take a form of revenge...

Would you do it?

Even if it was really, really bad (but non-violent)?

This is weird because I'm in this position right now. I hated what she did with a passion from when she did it (at the end of uni, so around May) to just yesterday. I mean I really hated it - bitched about it to my close friend, decided I'd show her when I go back to university, and really tell her what she did was wrong because she doesn't think she did anything bad.

However, over the past 24 hours I've been really thinking about what I've been doing. I've harboured so much resentment that I started to aspire to be something I'm not - a total prick. Yesterday, at the gym, I met someone who used to make my life a living hell - I really hated him at the time, but I saw him, and I said hello. There were no feelings of hatred or disdain, and I didn't wish him hell.

I'm not the self-centered **** that everyone hates because he speaks his mind, and I'm not the guy who goes around being spiteful to people because of what they did to me. At the end of the day, I'm the soppy loner who'd do anything for the people he cares about.

It's all about coming to terms with who you are, and who you were before the relationship started. Don't let it change you into something you're not... and besides, Karma probably will hit them back ten times harder than they hit you.

Ex's and revenge...

Should you take revenge on a heartbreaker?

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