I got dumped in January by my boyfriend of two and a bit months, and things have been a bit awkward since, especially since he never really explained why we broke up. I did have my suspicions as to why, seeing as the last time we were together he wanted me to give him a hand job, and I didn't want to, then the next time I saw him we were breaking up ...
I basically got over him, but on a night out, I got talking to a mutual friend, who's gay, and he said that once my ex had asked him out and he'd stayed the night with him, then got dumped in the morning and told it was an 'experiment'. I guess for a start this made me annoyed with him for being such an *******, but then my friend also said that he'd heard the reason I got dumped was because my ex wasn't getting any sex ...
So yeah, I really don't know what to make of it, my first thought is to feel a bit used, cause now every memory is tainted with him being this overly sex driven creepy guy... I guess its a bit of an over exaggeration but that's honestly how I feel.
Given that he never actually asked, and I probably would've slept with him at some point in the future, am I justified in being hurt by this ? :/
Not sure what to think about this ... Watch
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- 15-03-2013 22:46
- 16-03-2013 01:03
You have every right to be upset, he sounds like a jerk. Find someone more mature who will be patient with you, and who's worth it.
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- 16-03-2013 03:17
Sounds like you made a lucky escape, doesnt sound like he would have deserved to sample what you have to offer.
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- 16-03-2013 08:53
If you were going out for over two months but didn't have any sex, that will have influenced his decision to dump you. Sexual attraction is important in a relationship and if the possibility of sex isn't clear, it can damage sexual attraction for either person.
Then again, it doesn't sound like he was that great so I wouldn't worry about it too much.