Redox help please!

I'm soo confused with electrode potentials and what happens at the cathode and anode.

I've read that the cathode is positively charged, and reduction occurs here... but isn't reduction gain of electrons, so shouldn't the electrode be more negative with the added electrons?

And the anode is negatively charged and oxidation occurs here... again shouldn't it be positively charged if electrons are being removed?

I'm sooo confused!!