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    Hey guys,

    So I was out with my boyfriend of a month and my friends and I was at the bar buying drinks and my friends and him were dancing round, but I noticed that my boyfriend was dancing with my best friend loads. I kept looking at him throughout the night and whenever she was there, he was looking at her..
    He's quite shy and doesn't really talk to my friends unless drunk... he told me he was just trying to make an effort with them! Please help... do you think he fancies her?
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    Yeah he does
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    I think you're jumping to conclusions here, yes it's possible that he fancies her, but much more probably he was making an effort to get to know your friends, and in particular the one you're closest too. I wouldn't worry about it.
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    And here I was thinking all along your friend was a ****!
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    Does it matter? So long as he knows he can look but cannot touch then you are fine.

    Being in love does not mean you never find anybody else attractive, it just means you don't want to be with anybody else.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hey guys,

    So I was out with my boyfriend of a month and my friends and I was at the bar buying drinks and my friends and him were dancing round, but I noticed that my boyfriend was dancing with my best friend loads. I kept looking at him throughout the night and whenever she was there, he was looking at her..
    He's quite shy and doesn't really talk to my friends unless drunk... he told me he was just trying to make an effort with them! Please help... do you think he fancies her?
    you should only worry if he was touching her or looking at her arse, other than that you shouldn't worry.
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    (Original post by Ham22)
    There's looking (a glance), and then there's repeatedly looking and staring at someone and paying them excessive attention, which is unacceptable. It suggests they really want to be with this other person. AFFAIR OF THE HEART (OR PENIS).
    He was pretty much outright staring at her, no subtlety about it :/
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    Sounds like he does. Talk to him though, or it will become a huge issue before you even know if he does.


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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hey guys,

    So I was out with my boyfriend of a month and my friends and I was at the bar buying drinks and my friends and him were dancing round, but I noticed that my boyfriend was dancing with my best friend loads. I kept looking at him throughout the night and whenever she was there, he was looking at her..
    He's quite shy and doesn't really talk to my friends unless drunk... he told me he was just trying to make an effort with them! Please help... do you think he fancies her?
    MY boyfriend dances with my friends all the time, if he is a decent guy I really wouldn't worry about it, he's probably just being friendly.
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    (Original post by Rainingshame)
    And here I was thinking all along your friend was a ****!
    Haha the boy part threw me too. I'm afraid he does fancy her from what it seems yeah. Either that or she was talking a lot


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