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    Anon because I have friends on here.

    Basically there's this guy in college who I see every day but don't have any classes or anything with. I just see him around in the library, at lunch in the refectory etc. He used to stare at me a few months ago and came and sat next to me in the library once where I heard him telling his mate that he likes me. Anyway, I assumed he liked me because whenever he saw me he'd either be staring at me or trying not to stare. I observed him for a while and started finding him rather cute.. Unfortunately though, I never really made the effort to give him eye contact back or anything and now he doesn't look at me anymore. He doesn't even give me casual glances and it looks like he avoids looking at me at all costs. But then there's the odd day where I catch him looking at me and can't bring myself to give him any eye contact so I just act casual and act like I haven't noticed him. :/ I feel really bad but upset too cos he's the only guy that's intrigued me so much. So yeah.. I wanted to ask, if you've been interested in a girl you don't know much for a while and kept looking at her, then suddenly stopped, what's the reason behind this? Loss of interest? Hopelessness? Annoyance? A new gf...? Am I missing something?

    Thanks guys. Opinions of girls are welcome too
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    Possibly shy and when you caught him looking at you, he is thinking that you think he might be a creep. Speak to him.

    Or you got something on your face that's impressive enough to stare at.
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    (Original post by Willbean)
    Possibly shy and when you caught him looking at you, he is thinking that you think he might be a creep. Speak to him.

    Or you got something on your face that's impressive enough to stare at.
    I can't look at him let alone speak to him, I'm too shy myself. :/ How do I make him look at me again so that I can at least show some interest? Thanks for the reply
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    I think if he looks at you some days and not others anymore and doesn't even casually glance at you, he's trying to avoid making eye contact. This would probably be because you haven't given him any so he thinks you're uninterested and has given up?
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    Maybe it's because he thinks that you've noticed him looking at you all the time, and think it's weird. So he's stopped looking at you so you won't think him a creep.
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    (Original post by s.a.u)
    Maybe it's because he thinks that you've noticed him looking at you all the time, and think it's weird. So he's stopped looking at you so you won't think him a creep.
    Ditto. He probably noticed you observing him too
 
 
 
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