ok this is going to be a bit long:
Since October when I started uni, I met this girl which I became friends with soon. In the begin I did not put much interest in her, just was friendly towards her. Over christmas she texted me loads and then she bought me a present when we went back to uni. In january I invited her for a movie in my room. Nothing happened. A week later she came over again and this time we kissed. After that things went a bit fast and she started telling me that she broke up with her ex just before she came uni because he wanted sex and that she still loves him but never would get back together. In february I took her out for her birthday and then we started dating. Now more things happened between us but not sex (cuz she does not want and I do respect that). However, we have had loads of arguments and she says that I take things too fast so last weekend I told her let's just date casually and take it from there. She also keeps telling me she likes me and that she thinks I am funny and cute etc.. and now over Easter we have been facetiming loads and she is gonna come over next weekend to my town. But she keeps comparing me to her ex. Like everything I do or say is almost always the same as her ex and even my body looks apparently like him.
so has anyone got any advice on how to handle this situation? I really like this girl so any advice would be helpful
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- Thread Starter
- 20-03-2013 21:17
- 20-03-2013 21:37
She could be using you as a rebound if she constantly compares you to her ex :/ have you considered talking to her about it?
- Thread Starter
- 20-03-2013 22:23
no not really.. I have told her to stop doing it and that I am different.
But then we end up getting arguments and I'll get moody according to her.